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<blockquote data-quote="Nomad" data-source="post: 144462"><p>There are red flags here.</p><p>I think you should very seriously consider finding out what is going on.</p><p>You might want to intall a spyware program...especially if you have reason to believe he will be less than candid with you.</p><p>If you do not know how to do this, you would need to get a friend "in the know" to help you. And I would keep super duper quiet about it.</p><p>You also could go to marriage counseling to see if he might open up with the help of a trained professional to work through any problems.</p><p>If he is honestly willing to do this, I would be as caring and kind as possible...just as long as he is willing to go to the counseling regularly and make changes as per agreed upon.</p><p>Do you have your own therapist to get help with reference to this? </p><p>You don't know what can of worms might be opening up here.</p><p>Generally speaking, I would want to know what is going on.</p><p>Not having relations for such a long period of time alone would cause me to be very concerned.</p><p>Other than serious health problems, this does not seem appropriate and in my humble opinion, should be addressed.</p><p>I am sorry that you have this difficult issue on your mind and I hope you are able to address it soon. Only after it is addressed will there be hope of its resolution.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Nomad, post: 144462"] There are red flags here. I think you should very seriously consider finding out what is going on. You might want to intall a spyware program...especially if you have reason to believe he will be less than candid with you. If you do not know how to do this, you would need to get a friend "in the know" to help you. And I would keep super duper quiet about it. You also could go to marriage counseling to see if he might open up with the help of a trained professional to work through any problems. If he is honestly willing to do this, I would be as caring and kind as possible...just as long as he is willing to go to the counseling regularly and make changes as per agreed upon. Do you have your own therapist to get help with reference to this? You don't know what can of worms might be opening up here. Generally speaking, I would want to know what is going on. Not having relations for such a long period of time alone would cause me to be very concerned. Other than serious health problems, this does not seem appropriate and in my humble opinion, should be addressed. I am sorry that you have this difficult issue on your mind and I hope you are able to address it soon. Only after it is addressed will there be hope of its resolution. [/QUOTE]
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