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<blockquote data-quote="ChefPaula1965" data-source="post: 144641" data-attributes="member: 2913"><p>All of you are so kind with all of your answers.... and willingness to help...</p><p>let's just set a few little things straight..</p><p>**husband would NOT be looking for a present for me.... I have only gotten flowers 3 times since I have known him... nothing mother's day, nothing valentines day, usually nothing on christmass (he contends that anything he buys me would take away from the kids and that it is selfish of me to think he should get me something)..... aniversaries, a kiss and maybe, if I am lucky a card.... HE HAS ALWAYS BEEN TRULY UNROMANTIC ..</p><p>** I do think that if he is looking at porn, that he erase it because the kids do have access to the computer... </p><p>** He has not touched me... when I ask he just says "why bother"... I am a 42 year old woman and have been pushed aside by my husband..</p><p>**husband will NOT go to counseling ... he thinks very poorly of "psycho-babble" ... </p><p>**he would not be aproachable about the porn thing ... sadly enough.. you are right in saying that we have communication issues.... </p><p></p><p>He recently told me that we have nothing in common and that, in 10 years when the kids are gone, we should go our own ways...</p><p>You are correct I do need to go to counseling... I just need to be able to open up... I love husband very much... but one of the main reasons I married him is that he cherrished me.... that is all gone now... I am taken for granted... basically, the way I read what he said.. is : "we will raise the kids together... but there is nothing else in it for us"...</p><p>This is why I am concerned about the pornography.... If he is looking at all those beautiful women having "wonderful relations"... then looks at plain ole me... 42 year old 5'3" and 145 lb.. gray hair.. no wonder I don't do anything for him!!</p><p>Sorry to ramble on... but I hope this helps.. of all you answers, one of the main things I have gleaned is that I need counseling at least for me....... </p><p>I am just so sad......... between my husband being this way and my 17 yo being AWOL from the military.......... I must be a WARRIOR mom if nothing else..........</p><p>Hugs Paula</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="ChefPaula1965, post: 144641, member: 2913"] All of you are so kind with all of your answers.... and willingness to help... let's just set a few little things straight.. **husband would NOT be looking for a present for me.... I have only gotten flowers 3 times since I have known him... nothing mother's day, nothing valentines day, usually nothing on christmass (he contends that anything he buys me would take away from the kids and that it is selfish of me to think he should get me something)..... aniversaries, a kiss and maybe, if I am lucky a card.... HE HAS ALWAYS BEEN TRULY UNROMANTIC .. ** I do think that if he is looking at porn, that he erase it because the kids do have access to the computer... ** He has not touched me... when I ask he just says "why bother"... I am a 42 year old woman and have been pushed aside by my husband.. **husband will NOT go to counseling ... he thinks very poorly of "psycho-babble" ... **he would not be aproachable about the porn thing ... sadly enough.. you are right in saying that we have communication issues.... He recently told me that we have nothing in common and that, in 10 years when the kids are gone, we should go our own ways... You are correct I do need to go to counseling... I just need to be able to open up... I love husband very much... but one of the main reasons I married him is that he cherrished me.... that is all gone now... I am taken for granted... basically, the way I read what he said.. is : "we will raise the kids together... but there is nothing else in it for us"... This is why I am concerned about the pornography.... If he is looking at all those beautiful women having "wonderful relations"... then looks at plain ole me... 42 year old 5'3" and 145 lb.. gray hair.. no wonder I don't do anything for him!! Sorry to ramble on... but I hope this helps.. of all you answers, one of the main things I have gleaned is that I need counseling at least for me....... I am just so sad......... between my husband being this way and my 17 yo being AWOL from the military.......... I must be a WARRIOR mom if nothing else.......... Hugs Paula [/QUOTE]
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