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<blockquote data-quote="ChefPaula1965" data-source="post: 145264" data-attributes="member: 2913"><p><strong><span style="font-family: 'Comic Sans MS'"><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="color: darkorchid">Good morning... and thank you for your caring concern.... Tammy, my h dsnt drink... I wish I had somthing to blame his behavior on... It is odd, that I have gone from hurt to angry to "checking out" (mentally) with my H in the past few days since I posted.. I think he is feeling the heat.. but any attention is very minimal and in my humble opinion it is way too little way too late. I am starting, on my next pay check to put money asside for the possibility of moving out with the kids after school lets out (May 21) ... The problem with all this is that he cannot afford the house either and I really don't want to have a repo on our hands... I did go on a web site about child support and it looks like the support amount wld help me cover all the bills for maintaining the house... but I do not want to live there with the kids... If I leave my H I want a fresh start.. does that make any sense?? The three of them are going on a camping trip for the week end and I will be home alone.. (I can't go tent camping because of my recent back surgery.. they are not leaving me out).. this will be a good time for me to evaluate any situation that I need to... also time to talk to some friends and just have some much needed "me" time..</span></span></span></strong></p><p><strong><span style="font-family: 'Comic Sans MS'"><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="color: #9932cc">H has no compassion for me with- my feelings of loss with- difficult child.. he says "he made his decisions.. all bad.. just don't worry, there is nothing you can do" easier sad than done... but if I mention missing Andre he says "why, he was a problem..." I have so much on my plate that I am looking forward to the week end.. </span></span></span></strong></p><p><strong><span style="font-family: 'Comic Sans MS'"><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="color: #9932cc">I am just SO tired.. I think that is the main emotion here.. I have to go through a grieving process and work out my emotions.. </span></span></span></strong></p><p><strong><span style="font-family: 'Comic Sans MS'"><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="color: #9932cc">Today on break I am calling to make an apointment with a counselor... </span></span></span></strong></p><p><strong><span style="font-family: 'Comic Sans MS'"><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="color: #9932cc">I am so glad I have returned to this site.. you are all SO wonderful..</span></span></span></strong></p><p><strong><span style="font-family: 'Comic Sans MS'"><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="color: #9932cc">THanks Paula </span></span></span></strong></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="ChefPaula1965, post: 145264, member: 2913"] [B][FONT=Comic Sans MS][SIZE=3][COLOR=darkorchid]Good morning... and thank you for your caring concern.... Tammy, my h dsnt drink... I wish I had somthing to blame his behavior on... It is odd, that I have gone from hurt to angry to "checking out" (mentally) with my H in the past few days since I posted.. I think he is feeling the heat.. but any attention is very minimal and in my humble opinion it is way too little way too late. I am starting, on my next pay check to put money asside for the possibility of moving out with the kids after school lets out (May 21) ... The problem with all this is that he cannot afford the house either and I really don't want to have a repo on our hands... I did go on a web site about child support and it looks like the support amount wld help me cover all the bills for maintaining the house... but I do not want to live there with the kids... If I leave my H I want a fresh start.. does that make any sense?? The three of them are going on a camping trip for the week end and I will be home alone.. (I can't go tent camping because of my recent back surgery.. they are not leaving me out).. this will be a good time for me to evaluate any situation that I need to... also time to talk to some friends and just have some much needed "me" time..[/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT][/B] [B][FONT=Comic Sans MS][SIZE=3][COLOR=#9932cc]H has no compassion for me with- my feelings of loss with- difficult child.. he says "he made his decisions.. all bad.. just don't worry, there is nothing you can do" easier sad than done... but if I mention missing Andre he says "why, he was a problem..." I have so much on my plate that I am looking forward to the week end.. [/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT][/B] [B][FONT=Comic Sans MS][SIZE=3][COLOR=#9932cc]I am just SO tired.. I think that is the main emotion here.. I have to go through a grieving process and work out my emotions.. [/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT][/B] [B][FONT=Comic Sans MS][SIZE=3][COLOR=#9932cc]Today on break I am calling to make an apointment with a counselor... [/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT][/B] [B][FONT=Comic Sans MS][SIZE=3][COLOR=#9932cc]I am so glad I have returned to this site.. you are all SO wonderful..[/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT][/B] [B][FONT=Comic Sans MS][SIZE=3][COLOR=#9932cc]THanks Paula [/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT][/B] [/QUOTE]
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