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<blockquote data-quote="ChefPaula1965" data-source="post: 145335" data-attributes="member: 2913"><p><span style="font-family: 'Comic Sans MS'"><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="color: darkorchid">Wow Jo, thanks for the idea on journaling.. I definately will do this.. </span></span></span></p><p><span style="font-family: 'Comic Sans MS'"><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="color: #9932cc">My H has been unromantic since the first valentines day after we were married... while courting he was very romantic.. I have asked and asked to take into consideration that I like cards.. flowers and love to be courted.. it has been to no avail... He has only gotten progressively worse.. He even hates love songs, even if I point one out to him about our relationship... </span></span></span></p><p><span style="font-family: 'Comic Sans MS'"><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="color: #9932cc">This is just weighing more and more on me... At first, even with-o the romance, I knew that he cherished me.. he showed it in other ways.. so I was able to cope with the lack of romance.. He keeps pointing out to me that "there is nothing left between us" .. and I am not willing to give this anymore of my time and energy..</span></span></span></p><p><span style="font-family: 'Comic Sans MS'"><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="color: #9932cc">The kids do do some chores and H does help out some.. when I ask for very specific things to be done.. grocery shopping.. some laundry etc.. but is such a bad example to the kids.. what he does do is 1/2 a*s ... He eats and eats and eats.. but on the other hand gets on to Boo.. who is almost 100lb at only 8 yo... tells him he needs to control himself as far as food is concerned... If Daddy is eating so much and even being sneaky about his food intake.. how can "boo" not see that?? </span></span></span></p><p><span style="font-family: 'Comic Sans MS'"><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="color: #9932cc">My kids do not respect me.. and lay on me the same way H does... how do you stop that when the parent is doing it?? </span></span></span></p><p><span style="font-family: 'Comic Sans MS'"><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="color: #9932cc">The "blow ups" at me in front of "the littles" are becoming more frequent.. he has made it CLEAR that he has completely lost all interest in our home life... AND our home... i/e I don't want your friends coming over to our white trash home......... I am treated with contempt by all in my home.. </span></span></span></p><p><span style="font-family: 'Comic Sans MS'"><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="color: #9932cc">I cannot tollerate the porn... in my minds eye it IS a BIG deal... it is a slap inthe face that some how.. I am not good enough... </span></span></span></p><p><span style="font-family: 'Comic Sans MS'"><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="color: #9932cc">Thank you all so much for your ideas.. I started yesterday with plans.. by looking at about who much child support I could get... calling a contractor to look a the repairs that need to be made to the house.. we have a roof leak... of course back of my mind is that this needs to be fixed so we can put the house on the market...</span></span></span></p><p><span style="font-family: 'Comic Sans MS'"><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="color: #9932cc">Wow keep the great ideas coming.. and the encouragement..</span></span></span></p><p><span style="font-family: 'Comic Sans MS'"><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="color: #9932cc">thanks and hugs to you </span></span></span></p><p><span style="font-family: 'Comic Sans MS'"><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="color: #9932cc">Paula</span></span></span></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="ChefPaula1965, post: 145335, member: 2913"] [FONT=Comic Sans MS][SIZE=3][COLOR=darkorchid]Wow Jo, thanks for the idea on journaling.. I definately will do this.. [/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Comic Sans MS][SIZE=3][COLOR=#9932cc]My H has been unromantic since the first valentines day after we were married... while courting he was very romantic.. I have asked and asked to take into consideration that I like cards.. flowers and love to be courted.. it has been to no avail... He has only gotten progressively worse.. He even hates love songs, even if I point one out to him about our relationship... [/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Comic Sans MS][SIZE=3][COLOR=#9932cc]This is just weighing more and more on me... At first, even with-o the romance, I knew that he cherished me.. he showed it in other ways.. so I was able to cope with the lack of romance.. He keeps pointing out to me that "there is nothing left between us" .. and I am not willing to give this anymore of my time and energy..[/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Comic Sans MS][SIZE=3][COLOR=#9932cc]The kids do do some chores and H does help out some.. when I ask for very specific things to be done.. grocery shopping.. some laundry etc.. but is such a bad example to the kids.. what he does do is 1/2 a*s ... He eats and eats and eats.. but on the other hand gets on to Boo.. who is almost 100lb at only 8 yo... tells him he needs to control himself as far as food is concerned... If Daddy is eating so much and even being sneaky about his food intake.. how can "boo" not see that?? [/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Comic Sans MS][SIZE=3][COLOR=#9932cc]My kids do not respect me.. and lay on me the same way H does... how do you stop that when the parent is doing it?? [/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Comic Sans MS][SIZE=3][COLOR=#9932cc]The "blow ups" at me in front of "the littles" are becoming more frequent.. he has made it CLEAR that he has completely lost all interest in our home life... AND our home... i/e I don't want your friends coming over to our white trash home......... I am treated with contempt by all in my home.. [/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Comic Sans MS][SIZE=3][COLOR=#9932cc]I cannot tollerate the porn... in my minds eye it IS a BIG deal... it is a slap inthe face that some how.. I am not good enough... [/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Comic Sans MS][SIZE=3][COLOR=#9932cc]Thank you all so much for your ideas.. I started yesterday with plans.. by looking at about who much child support I could get... calling a contractor to look a the repairs that need to be made to the house.. we have a roof leak... of course back of my mind is that this needs to be fixed so we can put the house on the market...[/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Comic Sans MS][SIZE=3][COLOR=#9932cc]Wow keep the great ideas coming.. and the encouragement..[/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Comic Sans MS][SIZE=3][COLOR=#9932cc]thanks and hugs to you [/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Comic Sans MS][SIZE=3][COLOR=#9932cc]Paula[/COLOR][/SIZE][/FONT] [/QUOTE]
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