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<blockquote data-quote="PatriotsGirl" data-source="post: 523406"><p>Well, in true difficult child fashion, just couldn't work out could it?? difficult child was obviously crashing and ended up sleeping for 26 hours. My friend let her sleep because she said her body needed it. Obviously she looked rough. And how does difficult child thank my friend??</p><p></p><p>I received a text at almost ten last night saying that difficult child yelled at her, left her Facebook open on her Kindle Fire, and left? I checked the phone records this morning and she was on the phone all night texting back and forth with the ex-boyfriend!! I also saw that she has been trying to call my friend this morning but my friend has not answered and I don't blame her one bit. I texted my friend back, but have not heard anything else. </p><p></p><p>Wait - difficult child just called yelling about how my friend is crazy and she was being responsible and showed up for work early, and my friend was not there. She said her and all of the other workers were waiting for my friend to get there, who was very late, so difficult child drove to the apartment to wake her up and my friend yelled at her and everyone else. She claims she did not yell at my friend. I asked her why she left last night and she said it didn't matter why she left, she just left. I said well she probably thought you left to go do drugs and that is exactly what I would have thought, too. difficult child's voice just kept going up and she was yelling and I said I wasn't going to listen to it and so she called me the C word as I was hanging up. Nice. </p><p></p><p> On another note, I couldn't contain myself from writing the ex the other day and letting him know what I thought about him. He wrote back that I have no idea how difficult child behaved at his home and how she was banned from there. He didn't tell me what she did, but I am not surprised. Her temper is just explosive. She needs help - real help - for both the drug problem and her head. </p><p> </p><p>So she is spiraling out of control, I am getting wrapped up in her drama and problems again and I can feel that co-dependance rearing its ugly head. I HAVE to detach. Until she is ready and willing to get some real help, I feel that I have to remove myself from her life completely. I cannot be involved in all of this drama. It is not good for my job since I cannot focus and concentrate and it is not good for my husband because I just sit there and worry about difficult child all of the time. UGH. How do you take that step of removing yourself from them completely?</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="PatriotsGirl, post: 523406"] Well, in true difficult child fashion, just couldn't work out could it?? difficult child was obviously crashing and ended up sleeping for 26 hours. My friend let her sleep because she said her body needed it. Obviously she looked rough. And how does difficult child thank my friend?? I received a text at almost ten last night saying that difficult child yelled at her, left her Facebook open on her Kindle Fire, and left? I checked the phone records this morning and she was on the phone all night texting back and forth with the ex-boyfriend!! I also saw that she has been trying to call my friend this morning but my friend has not answered and I don't blame her one bit. I texted my friend back, but have not heard anything else. Wait - difficult child just called yelling about how my friend is crazy and she was being responsible and showed up for work early, and my friend was not there. She said her and all of the other workers were waiting for my friend to get there, who was very late, so difficult child drove to the apartment to wake her up and my friend yelled at her and everyone else. She claims she did not yell at my friend. I asked her why she left last night and she said it didn't matter why she left, she just left. I said well she probably thought you left to go do drugs and that is exactly what I would have thought, too. difficult child's voice just kept going up and she was yelling and I said I wasn't going to listen to it and so she called me the C word as I was hanging up. Nice. On another note, I couldn't contain myself from writing the ex the other day and letting him know what I thought about him. He wrote back that I have no idea how difficult child behaved at his home and how she was banned from there. He didn't tell me what she did, but I am not surprised. Her temper is just explosive. She needs help - real help - for both the drug problem and her head. So she is spiraling out of control, I am getting wrapped up in her drama and problems again and I can feel that co-dependance rearing its ugly head. I HAVE to detach. Until she is ready and willing to get some real help, I feel that I have to remove myself from her life completely. I cannot be involved in all of this drama. It is not good for my job since I cannot focus and concentrate and it is not good for my husband because I just sit there and worry about difficult child all of the time. UGH. How do you take that step of removing yourself from them completely? [/QUOTE]
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