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<blockquote data-quote="Nancy" data-source="post: 523460" data-attributes="member: 59"><p>PG I know it's hard but you have to pull back. You have to let her fall on her own and not be there for every crisis she goes through. You are right that your friend is not helping by giving you all the details. As long as you are there for difficult child to yell at she thinks she has you to fall back on. She has to stand or fall on her own. I honestly would stop answering the phone when she calls. Let her leave a message and that will give you time to decide what to do.</p><p></p><p>I'm so sorry she is spiraling out of control. I know how helpless you feel but I have leanrned finally that I can't catch her anymore and every time I help her it keeps her from helping herself.</p><p></p><p>Nancy</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Nancy, post: 523460, member: 59"] PG I know it's hard but you have to pull back. You have to let her fall on her own and not be there for every crisis she goes through. You are right that your friend is not helping by giving you all the details. As long as you are there for difficult child to yell at she thinks she has you to fall back on. She has to stand or fall on her own. I honestly would stop answering the phone when she calls. Let her leave a message and that will give you time to decide what to do. I'm so sorry she is spiraling out of control. I know how helpless you feel but I have leanrned finally that I can't catch her anymore and every time I help her it keeps her from helping herself. Nancy [/QUOTE]
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