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What a morning...again. But instead of being able to carry him and finish dressing him in the car- he's slamming doors screaming bloody murder cuz my daughter and dad left for school. It seems as if no matter what time he gets up ( even if he had a bath night before) he quits getting ready and starts playing with his toys saying he needs to find stuff. Now, I thought he just didnt want to go to school ( u all asked before does he want to go to school, he like it there-anything wrong but as I was trying to tune out his screaming ( what can I do about that?) I was thinking. He is the same way getting ready for the store! He HAS to do what he wants when he wants how he wants. So now his days of tardies and absences are rising!
I know u all mentioned at a public school he might me able to get a special program where he has permission to be late/absent something. My son- once we do that- he will "take an inch and go a mile" when hes only offered the inch. He thinks he can get away with everything and in a sense I see where I have messed up and gave in and yes, thats my fault not his.
Hes so defiant - last night we had rain wind- it was cold after school, he didnt care he was suppose to change outa his school uniform/shoes! He took off his coat threw his sisters scooter under the car, threw his around screaming bloody murder neighbors came out and stared uggh. I can deal with getting inform dirty but soaked shoes ruin- have to buy more. Jacket- he needs- the whole block and his sis, us were wearing it! Maybe Im too strict? When should he play outside by himself? I am there or his sis/ older kids. He always threatens to take off and go wherever as well as a few times started just to leave ( twice he was mad)?
Oh my neighbor went to that Dr thats doing the evaluation and she said he is qualified and great- plus if he needs to he will send him other places Makes me feel better
I know u all mentioned at a public school he might me able to get a special program where he has permission to be late/absent something. My son- once we do that- he will "take an inch and go a mile" when hes only offered the inch. He thinks he can get away with everything and in a sense I see where I have messed up and gave in and yes, thats my fault not his.
Hes so defiant - last night we had rain wind- it was cold after school, he didnt care he was suppose to change outa his school uniform/shoes! He took off his coat threw his sisters scooter under the car, threw his around screaming bloody murder neighbors came out and stared uggh. I can deal with getting inform dirty but soaked shoes ruin- have to buy more. Jacket- he needs- the whole block and his sis, us were wearing it! Maybe Im too strict? When should he play outside by himself? I am there or his sis/ older kids. He always threatens to take off and go wherever as well as a few times started just to leave ( twice he was mad)?
Oh my neighbor went to that Dr thats doing the evaluation and she said he is qualified and great- plus if he needs to he will send him other places Makes me feel better