Forums
New posts
Search forums
What's new
New posts
New profile posts
Latest activity
Internet Search
Members
Current visitors
New profile posts
Search profile posts
Log in
Register
What's new
Search
Search
Search titles only
By:
New posts
Search forums
Menu
Log in
Register
Install the app
Install
Forums
Parent Support Forums
Parent Emeritus
Latest on the Boy
JavaScript is disabled. For a better experience, please enable JavaScript in your browser before proceeding.
You are using an out of date browser. It may not display this or other websites correctly.
You should upgrade or use an
alternative browser
.
Reply to thread
Message
<blockquote data-quote="Copabanana" data-source="post: 665681" data-attributes="member: 18958"><p>It is what it is. The program made their decision to discharge (which they can always revisit) and your son chose to threaten your life. Your responsibility is clear in this: to protect yourself and the security of your home.</p><p></p><p>How would it benefit your son to return to your care and home where he feels so powerful and omnipotent that he can verbally contemplate ending your life and feel no consequence?</p><p></p><p>You have learned from the past what the consequence will be to backing down. Do not. If you need to turn off the phone, do so.</p><p></p><p>The program is being irresponsible to repeatedly call you and to allow your son to do so. One "no" is enough.</p><p></p><p>I cannot believe that a reputable program would entertain the idea to discharge their resident to the care of someone they have threatened to kill.</p><p></p><p>PASA, you are very strong. Do whatever you need to to insulate yourself from this pressure.</p><p></p><p>Whether you are 32 or 62 you cannot take your son back.</p><p></p><p>Let the program do their job. They want you to take responsibility so that they do not have to. If you sign the paper, they are off the hook legally. If you do not sign the paper they are on the hook legally if your son hurts somebody or is hurt.</p><p></p><p>If you do not sign they will find a place for him or keep him where he is. They know he should not be released. They are showing their hand by their desperation. This is a poker game. They are bluffing. Do not give in. Do not let them off the hook.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Copabanana, post: 665681, member: 18958"] It is what it is. The program made their decision to discharge (which they can always revisit) and your son chose to threaten your life. Your responsibility is clear in this: to protect yourself and the security of your home. How would it benefit your son to return to your care and home where he feels so powerful and omnipotent that he can verbally contemplate ending your life and feel no consequence? You have learned from the past what the consequence will be to backing down. Do not. If you need to turn off the phone, do so. The program is being irresponsible to repeatedly call you and to allow your son to do so. One "no" is enough. I cannot believe that a reputable program would entertain the idea to discharge their resident to the care of someone they have threatened to kill. PASA, you are very strong. Do whatever you need to to insulate yourself from this pressure. Whether you are 32 or 62 you cannot take your son back. Let the program do their job. They want you to take responsibility so that they do not have to. If you sign the paper, they are off the hook legally. If you do not sign the paper they are on the hook legally if your son hurts somebody or is hurt. If you do not sign they will find a place for him or keep him where he is. They know he should not be released. They are showing their hand by their desperation. This is a poker game. They are bluffing. Do not give in. Do not let them off the hook. [/QUOTE]
Insert quotes…
Verification
Post reply
Forums
Parent Support Forums
Parent Emeritus
Latest on the Boy
Top