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<blockquote data-quote="toughlovin" data-source="post: 438060"><p>Awww thanks Star!!! Funny i haven't heard from him in a couple of days.... no more about the room or anything. So he is either lying around doing nothing or figuring out something without me. I haven't heard any more from the mother.... I think she got my point that I am not solving this for them. He may be slowly getting that his dad and I really are no longer going to enable him. It has become crystal clear to me that it does not help him to make things easy for him.... he has to want to improve his life, which means he has to work at it and if that means riding an old rusty bike to get to work so be it. So I will help when it seems there is no other option... this is where helping him with rent comes in.... but if it is doable then he can do it... and there is some public transportation, there is his two own legs, and there could be a rusty old bike that works. That may not be easy but it is doable. My husband is on the same page, after a little calm prodding from me. <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite1" alt=":)" title="Smile :)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":)" /></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="toughlovin, post: 438060"] Awww thanks Star!!! Funny i haven't heard from him in a couple of days.... no more about the room or anything. So he is either lying around doing nothing or figuring out something without me. I haven't heard any more from the mother.... I think she got my point that I am not solving this for them. He may be slowly getting that his dad and I really are no longer going to enable him. It has become crystal clear to me that it does not help him to make things easy for him.... he has to want to improve his life, which means he has to work at it and if that means riding an old rusty bike to get to work so be it. So I will help when it seems there is no other option... this is where helping him with rent comes in.... but if it is doable then he can do it... and there is some public transportation, there is his two own legs, and there could be a rusty old bike that works. That may not be easy but it is doable. My husband is on the same page, after a little calm prodding from me. :) [/QUOTE]
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