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<blockquote data-quote="Scent of Cedar *" data-source="post: 654135" data-attributes="member: 17461"><p>Nomad, the person who assaulted your daughter is a vicious, violent bully. There is no excuse for what she did ~ especially if she is preying on those who are vulnerable to begin with.</p><p></p><p><em>Bullies choose their victims carefully from the first taunt. A bully will never confront someone who will fight back. Whatever you know about what has happened or how it has been justified, there is more. It began with the bully. Like every predator, she targeted your child. She has probably done it before. She knows how to choose and aggravate her prey, and she knows what to say to cover her tracks.</em></p><p></p><p>The problem is not that your child is giving the wrong kinds of people access. The problem is the bully.</p><p></p><p>Nonetheless, you will have to detach from the emotions.</p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p>I would be half-crazy with grief and anger.</p><p></p><p>I remember how unreal all of it was when our daughter was beat. It was like I could not pull myself together. I was so focused on taking vengeance.</p><p></p><p>It was horrible.</p><p></p><p>In my heart I wanted that man dead.</p><p></p><p>The other grandmother blamed my daughter, and drugs.</p><p></p><p>But he is the one who did what he did. And he did it over time.</p><p></p><p>It took me a very long time to let go of that sickening rage I felt. I could still feel it, if I wanted to spend any time there.</p><p></p><p>Ew.</p><p></p><p>I feel terrible for you.</p><p></p><p>You will have to be very strong, to make it through this.</p><p></p><p>Cedar</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Scent of Cedar *, post: 654135, member: 17461"] Nomad, the person who assaulted your daughter is a vicious, violent bully. There is no excuse for what she did ~ especially if she is preying on those who are vulnerable to begin with. [I]Bullies choose their victims carefully from the first taunt. A bully will never confront someone who will fight back. Whatever you know about what has happened or how it has been justified, there is more. It began with the bully. Like every predator, she targeted your child. She has probably done it before. She knows how to choose and aggravate her prey, and she knows what to say to cover her tracks.[/I] The problem is not that your child is giving the wrong kinds of people access. The problem is the bully. Nonetheless, you will have to detach from the emotions. I would be half-crazy with grief and anger. I remember how unreal all of it was when our daughter was beat. It was like I could not pull myself together. I was so focused on taking vengeance. It was horrible. In my heart I wanted that man dead. The other grandmother blamed my daughter, and drugs. But he is the one who did what he did. And he did it over time. It took me a very long time to let go of that sickening rage I felt. I could still feel it, if I wanted to spend any time there. Ew. I feel terrible for you. You will have to be very strong, to make it through this. Cedar [/QUOTE]
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