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Let's all go for a ride on the emotional escalator, shall we? EPIC
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<blockquote data-quote="mstang67chic" data-source="post: 330069" data-attributes="member: 2459"><p>Hugs....that's one heck of a night for everyone. Besides the obvious, I always hate those the worst because even if everything is hunky dorey the next day, I still feel out of sorts for days after. I can't imagine how difficult child's feel after all of that. </p><p></p><p>I do agree with emotionallybankrupt that maybe waiting till the next day for at least some of the consequence might have been better but without being there in the moment, who's to say. What may be feasible one time may not work the next. </p><p></p><p>I hope you can get in soon to the doctor...something definately sounds off. My difficult child would make comments like yours did about the medications and how he feels also. Sometimes it was total bull but sometimes it wasn't and you could usually tell the difference because of the behaviors, Know what I mean??</p><p></p><p>I don't know what difficult child 1's history is on this but I might also mention the porn to the doctor also. There for awhile (although I'm sure he still does it, it's just not as obvious) would use masturbation as a way to manage/cope with his stress and/or anger. A lot. In our case, the doctor wasn't too concerned but I was before talking with the doctor because I didn't want him to connect anger with sex. He already had some kind of skewed ideas on sex and related subjects because of bio mom and his past so I didn't want it to develop into even more negative things. 'Course, that could just be me and my own worries about my difficult child too so take that part of this for what you will. <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite2" alt=";)" title="Wink ;)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=";)" /></p><p></p><p>In any event, what a koi-y night, I'm sorry. I hope things settle down for you and if his medications need tweaked, you can get it done quickly. Hugs.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="mstang67chic, post: 330069, member: 2459"] Hugs....that's one heck of a night for everyone. Besides the obvious, I always hate those the worst because even if everything is hunky dorey the next day, I still feel out of sorts for days after. I can't imagine how difficult child's feel after all of that. I do agree with emotionallybankrupt that maybe waiting till the next day for at least some of the consequence might have been better but without being there in the moment, who's to say. What may be feasible one time may not work the next. I hope you can get in soon to the doctor...something definately sounds off. My difficult child would make comments like yours did about the medications and how he feels also. Sometimes it was total bull but sometimes it wasn't and you could usually tell the difference because of the behaviors, Know what I mean?? I don't know what difficult child 1's history is on this but I might also mention the porn to the doctor also. There for awhile (although I'm sure he still does it, it's just not as obvious) would use masturbation as a way to manage/cope with his stress and/or anger. A lot. In our case, the doctor wasn't too concerned but I was before talking with the doctor because I didn't want him to connect anger with sex. He already had some kind of skewed ideas on sex and related subjects because of bio mom and his past so I didn't want it to develop into even more negative things. 'Course, that could just be me and my own worries about my difficult child too so take that part of this for what you will. :winking: In any event, what a koi-y night, I'm sorry. I hope things settle down for you and if his medications need tweaked, you can get it done quickly. Hugs. [/QUOTE]
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