Linda........you are one amazing person. So strong. So resilient.
So, are you trying to walk away from the situation with husband, and absolve yourself of any responsibility to further take care of him? Or are you hoping for reconciliation?
You have every right to be angry, and then some. Really, really blistering mad that he was so self absorbed that he has caused all of this trauma upon his family.
And yet at the same time, I am sure there is also a huge sense and concern and grief.
Hugs.