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Lol and Jabber: Update?
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<blockquote data-quote="Lil" data-source="post: 659213" data-attributes="member: 17309"><p>You know, I almost wish I did believe it was drugs. That would be a reason. Jabber, I believe, thinks some drugs are involved, but I really just don't know given that he has now, three times, passed drug tests for jobs. Yes...not everything shows up. But I don't think there's a "problem" with drugs. The summer before he left for college - sure. He was getting stoned 4-5 times a week. Now? I really don't think so, but I'm not there. Still, last night he was sober as a judge and he could have applied for the damn phone and didn't! 5 minutes - that's all it would have taken!</p><p> </p><p>If it's "just him" - I still don't know. I understand lack of social skills. I understand anxiety in new situations. But this is just laziness and lack of any motivation. It's being indifferent to your whole LIFE unless there's an immediate need. Like an child; he cries when he's cold and hungry, but doesn't bundle up or feed himself.</p><p> </p><p>He's TWENTY years old...a grown MAN!</p><p> </p><p>It just...truly...troubles me that he's so lazy. It's not even laziness...it's just a lack of concern in general.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Lil, post: 659213, member: 17309"] You know, I almost wish I did believe it was drugs. That would be a reason. Jabber, I believe, thinks some drugs are involved, but I really just don't know given that he has now, three times, passed drug tests for jobs. Yes...not everything shows up. But I don't think there's a "problem" with drugs. The summer before he left for college - sure. He was getting stoned 4-5 times a week. Now? I really don't think so, but I'm not there. Still, last night he was sober as a judge and he could have applied for the damn phone and didn't! 5 minutes - that's all it would have taken! If it's "just him" - I still don't know. I understand lack of social skills. I understand anxiety in new situations. But this is just laziness and lack of any motivation. It's being indifferent to your whole LIFE unless there's an immediate need. Like an child; he cries when he's cold and hungry, but doesn't bundle up or feed himself. He's TWENTY years old...a grown MAN! It just...truly...troubles me that he's so lazy. It's not even laziness...it's just a lack of concern in general. [/QUOTE]
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