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<blockquote data-quote="elmo1015" data-source="post: 604352" data-attributes="member: 16749"><p><span style="font-size: 10px"><span style="font-family: 'arial'">I spoke with my difficult child a short time ago and he said to me that the minute he gets out he wants to go make an appointment. I told him that was not going to fly with me. If he was serious then he will go to the Access Center and get an evaluation done immediately after he gets out and follow their recommendations. He agreed with me. So I am really praying that he is true to his word. There were no buts or only if's. It was only when. When I spoke with him last night, I told him about a poem/story I had read on facebook. It went like this...</span></span></p><p><span style="font-size: 10px"><span style="font-family: 'arial'"></span></span></p><p><span style="font-size: 10px"><span style="font-family: 'arial'"></span></span><span style="font-family: 'arial'">Me: God, can I ask You a question? </span></p><p><span style="font-family: 'arial'"></span><span style="font-family: 'arial'">God: Sure</span></p><p><span style="font-family: 'arial'"></span><span style="font-family: 'arial'">Me: Promise You won't get mad</span><span style="font-family: 'arial'"> ... ...</span></p><p><span style="font-family: 'arial'"></span><span style="font-family: 'arial'">God: I promise</span></p><p><span style="font-family: 'arial'"></span><span style="font-family: 'arial'">Me: Why did You let so much stuff happen to me today?</span></p><p><span style="font-family: 'arial'"></span><span style="font-family: 'arial'">God: What do u mean?</span></p><p><span style="font-family: 'arial'"></span><span style="font-family: 'arial'">Me: Well, I woke up late</span></p><p><span style="font-family: 'arial'"></span><span style="font-family: 'arial'">God: Yes</span></p><p><span style="font-family: 'arial'"></span><span style="font-family: 'arial'">Me: My car took forever to start</span></p><p><span style="font-family: 'arial'"></span><span style="font-family: 'arial'">God: Okay</span></p><p><span style="font-family: 'arial'"></span><span style="font-family: 'arial'">Me: at lunch they made my sandwich wrong & I had to wait</span></p><p><span style="font-family: 'arial'"></span><span style="font-family: 'arial'">God: Huummm</span></p><p><span style="font-family: 'arial'"></span><span style="font-family: 'arial'">Me: On the way home, my phone went DEAD, just as I picked up a call</span></p><p><span style="font-family: 'arial'"></span><span style="font-family: 'arial'">God: All right</span></p><p><span style="font-family: 'arial'"></span><span style="font-family: 'arial'">Me: And on top of it all off, when I got home 'I just want to soak my feet in my new foot massager & relax. BUT it wouldn't work!!! Nothing went right today! Why did You do that?</span></p><p><span style="font-family: 'arial'"></span><span style="font-family: 'arial'">God: Let me see, the death angel was at your bed this morning & I had to send one </span><span style="font-family: 'arial'">of My Angels to battle him for your life. I let you sleep through that</span></p><p><span style="font-family: 'arial'"></span><span style="font-family: 'arial'">Me (humbled): OH</span></p><p><span style="font-family: 'arial'"></span><span style="font-family: 'arial'">GOD: I didn't let your car start because there was a drunk driver on your route that would have hit you if you were on the road.</span></p><p><span style="font-family: 'arial'"></span><span style="font-family: 'arial'">Me: (ashamed)</span></p><p><span style="font-family: 'arial'"></span><span style="font-family: 'arial'">God: The first person who made your sandwich today was sick & I didn't want you to catch what they have, I knew you couldn't afford to miss work.</span></p><p><span style="font-family: 'arial'"></span><span style="font-family: 'arial'">Me (embarrassed):Okay</span></p><p><span style="font-family: 'arial'"></span><span style="font-family: 'arial'">God: Your phone went dead bcuz the person that was calling was going to give false witness about what you said on that call, I didn't even let you talk to them so you would be covered.</span></p><p><span style="font-family: 'arial'"></span><span style="font-family: 'arial'">Me (softly): I see God</span></p><p><span style="font-family: 'arial'"></span><span style="font-family: 'arial'">God: Oh and that foot massager, it had a shortage that was going to throw out all of the power in your house tonight. I didn't think you wanted to be in the dark.</span></p><p><span style="font-family: 'arial'"></span><span style="font-family: 'arial'">Me: I'm Sorry God</span></p><p><span style="font-family: 'arial'"></span><span style="font-family: 'arial'">God: Don't be sorry, just learn to Trust Me.... in All things , the Good & the bad.</span></p><p><span style="font-family: 'arial'"></span><span style="font-family: 'arial'">Me: I will trust You.</span></p><p><span style="font-family: 'arial'"></span><span style="font-family: 'arial'">God: And don't doubt that My plan for your day is Always Better than your plan.</span></p><p><span style="font-family: 'arial'"></span><span style="font-family: 'arial'">Me: I won't God. And let me just tell you God, Thank You for Everything today.</span></p><p><span style="font-family: 'arial'"></span><span style="font-family: 'arial'"><span style="font-size: 10px">God: You're welcome child. It was just another day being your God and I Love looking after My Children...</span></span></p><p></p><p><span style="font-family: 'arial'"><span style="font-size: 10px">I told him that story and he his response to me was God put me in here to get me off the K2. He didn't say it with maliciousness or any sarcasm that I could detect. He seemed to truly mean what he said. I guess we will find out when he can finally get out. Hopefully, that will be tomorrow. Although, he can't come back to this house because of the charges that he is facing. My husband and J are trying to drop the charges because in all actuality, he should not have been arrested for that. The deputies that came out the time before should have Baker Acted him, instead of just walking away. At least that is what the Access Center said they should have done, both times. I don't want it to sound as though I am giving my difficult child an excuse, I am not doing that. I wouldn't want anyone to go to jail for pushing/shoving someone that is bigger then them. That is exactly what happened. He was in a psychosis and should have been hospitalized not jailed. Oh well, live and learn. I will post more as I know more. Thank you for all your support. It is really helping me.</span></span></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="elmo1015, post: 604352, member: 16749"] [SIZE=2][FONT=arial]I spoke with my difficult child a short time ago and he said to me that the minute he gets out he wants to go make an appointment. I told him that was not going to fly with me. If he was serious then he will go to the Access Center and get an evaluation done immediately after he gets out and follow their recommendations. He agreed with me. So I am really praying that he is true to his word. There were no buts or only if's. It was only when. When I spoke with him last night, I told him about a poem/story I had read on facebook. It went like this... [/FONT][/SIZE][FONT=arial]Me: God, can I ask You a question? [/FONT][FONT=arial]God: Sure [/FONT][FONT=arial]Me: Promise You won't get mad[/FONT][FONT=arial] ... ... [/FONT][FONT=arial]God: I promise [/FONT][FONT=arial]Me: Why did You let so much stuff happen to me today? [/FONT][FONT=arial]God: What do u mean? [/FONT][FONT=arial]Me: Well, I woke up late [/FONT][FONT=arial]God: Yes [/FONT][FONT=arial]Me: My car took forever to start [/FONT][FONT=arial]God: Okay [/FONT][FONT=arial]Me: at lunch they made my sandwich wrong & I had to wait [/FONT][FONT=arial]God: Huummm [/FONT][FONT=arial]Me: On the way home, my phone went DEAD, just as I picked up a call [/FONT][FONT=arial]God: All right [/FONT][FONT=arial]Me: And on top of it all off, when I got home 'I just want to soak my feet in my new foot massager & relax. BUT it wouldn't work!!! Nothing went right today! Why did You do that? [/FONT][FONT=arial]God: Let me see, the death angel was at your bed this morning & I had to send one [/FONT][FONT=arial]of My Angels to battle him for your life. I let you sleep through that [/FONT][FONT=arial]Me (humbled): OH [/FONT][FONT=arial]GOD: I didn't let your car start because there was a drunk driver on your route that would have hit you if you were on the road. [/FONT][FONT=arial]Me: (ashamed) [/FONT][FONT=arial]God: The first person who made your sandwich today was sick & I didn't want you to catch what they have, I knew you couldn't afford to miss work. [/FONT][FONT=arial]Me (embarrassed):Okay [/FONT][FONT=arial]God: Your phone went dead bcuz the person that was calling was going to give false witness about what you said on that call, I didn't even let you talk to them so you would be covered. [/FONT][FONT=arial]Me (softly): I see God [/FONT][FONT=arial]God: Oh and that foot massager, it had a shortage that was going to throw out all of the power in your house tonight. I didn't think you wanted to be in the dark. [/FONT][FONT=arial]Me: I'm Sorry God [/FONT][FONT=arial]God: Don't be sorry, just learn to Trust Me.... in All things , the Good & the bad. [/FONT][FONT=arial]Me: I will trust You. [/FONT][FONT=arial]God: And don't doubt that My plan for your day is Always Better than your plan. [/FONT][FONT=arial]Me: I won't God. And let me just tell you God, Thank You for Everything today. [/FONT][FONT=arial][SIZE=2]God: You're welcome child. It was just another day being your God and I Love looking after My Children...[/SIZE][/FONT] [FONT=arial][SIZE=2]I told him that story and he his response to me was God put me in here to get me off the K2. He didn't say it with maliciousness or any sarcasm that I could detect. He seemed to truly mean what he said. I guess we will find out when he can finally get out. Hopefully, that will be tomorrow. Although, he can't come back to this house because of the charges that he is facing. My husband and J are trying to drop the charges because in all actuality, he should not have been arrested for that. The deputies that came out the time before should have Baker Acted him, instead of just walking away. At least that is what the Access Center said they should have done, both times. I don't want it to sound as though I am giving my difficult child an excuse, I am not doing that. I wouldn't want anyone to go to jail for pushing/shoving someone that is bigger then them. That is exactly what happened. He was in a psychosis and should have been hospitalized not jailed. Oh well, live and learn. I will post more as I know more. Thank you for all your support. It is really helping me.[/SIZE][/FONT][FONT=arial] [/FONT] [/QUOTE]
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