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<blockquote data-quote="Zardo" data-source="post: 584494" data-attributes="member: 12490"><p>Thanks for all of your thoughts - CJ - I may private message you if that's ok - I would like to know more about your story. Buddy - I agree about the power struggle and that is one of our most important issues. husband's vision is "that's it - no more phone, no car, no smoking, no nothing" and he is willing to get in difficult children face to enforce what he wants. I don't think permanently removing every privlidge will improve behavior at all. In fact, I think it will make things worse. I am not in favor of giving everything back with no terms, but we have to creat a way for difficult child to earn his privlidges. If we treat him like an animal, he will act like an animal. This is what I am so concernned about. We have in-home services right now that we will be working with intensely while difficult child is gone to see if it's even possible to get to a place where husband can recognize what battles are worth fighting.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Zardo, post: 584494, member: 12490"] Thanks for all of your thoughts - CJ - I may private message you if that's ok - I would like to know more about your story. Buddy - I agree about the power struggle and that is one of our most important issues. husband's vision is "that's it - no more phone, no car, no smoking, no nothing" and he is willing to get in difficult children face to enforce what he wants. I don't think permanently removing every privlidge will improve behavior at all. In fact, I think it will make things worse. I am not in favor of giving everything back with no terms, but we have to creat a way for difficult child to earn his privlidges. If we treat him like an animal, he will act like an animal. This is what I am so concernned about. We have in-home services right now that we will be working with intensely while difficult child is gone to see if it's even possible to get to a place where husband can recognize what battles are worth fighting. [/QUOTE]
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