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<blockquote data-quote="Kjs" data-source="post: 80814"><p>I grew up in that era...never call a boy. I was also told..Never dance with anyone shorter than you. OK&gt;&gt;&gt;I am 6' tall. EVERYONE is shorter than me.</p><p></p><p>I have 2 very close friends that I have worked with in the past. Both males. They have come to my house and visited with husband and kids, and they have come when husband is not home.</p><p></p><p>I have lunch with them once in a while. One was not only my co-worker, he also was difficult child's basketball coach way back when he was in kindergarden. His son babysat difficult child. He has taken difficult child with him and his kids to sporting events out of town. He helps me fix things in my house. The other, he has borrowed us money when we were in big trouble. I was the boss of one, and one was the boss of me... back in the day.</p><p></p><p>I can honestly say they are my two closest friends I have. If husband wants to join us for lunch no problem. We invite them out with us. One is married with children, one is single.</p><p></p><p>When I am having an awful day and need to talk..they will be there. Regardless. They have visited me in the hospital. If they ever need the same, I will be there. I don't drink, but have gone out with one of them when he needed to talk. I had my coke, he had his drink. The other doesn't drink either, so we go for coffee or a coke. But husband is always invited. And husband always is aware. They even come over when I am not home and visit with husband.</p><p></p><p>If the shoe were on the other foot, can't say how I would feel. If husband had a female friend from work and invited her over and she talked to me, I think I would be ok. When these guys do come over and husband is home...they talk stupid guy stuff and ignore me. husband has gone with them out also, without me. When husband isn't home, most of the time difficult child or easy child is. They are always included in the conversations.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Kjs, post: 80814"] I grew up in that era...never call a boy. I was also told..Never dance with anyone shorter than you. OK>>>I am 6' tall. EVERYONE is shorter than me. I have 2 very close friends that I have worked with in the past. Both males. They have come to my house and visited with husband and kids, and they have come when husband is not home. I have lunch with them once in a while. One was not only my co-worker, he also was difficult child's basketball coach way back when he was in kindergarden. His son babysat difficult child. He has taken difficult child with him and his kids to sporting events out of town. He helps me fix things in my house. The other, he has borrowed us money when we were in big trouble. I was the boss of one, and one was the boss of me... back in the day. I can honestly say they are my two closest friends I have. If husband wants to join us for lunch no problem. We invite them out with us. One is married with children, one is single. When I am having an awful day and need to talk..they will be there. Regardless. They have visited me in the hospital. If they ever need the same, I will be there. I don't drink, but have gone out with one of them when he needed to talk. I had my coke, he had his drink. The other doesn't drink either, so we go for coffee or a coke. But husband is always invited. And husband always is aware. They even come over when I am not home and visit with husband. If the shoe were on the other foot, can't say how I would feel. If husband had a female friend from work and invited her over and she talked to me, I think I would be ok. When these guys do come over and husband is home...they talk stupid guy stuff and ignore me. husband has gone with them out also, without me. When husband isn't home, most of the time difficult child or easy child is. They are always included in the conversations. [/QUOTE]
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