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<blockquote data-quote="totoro" data-source="post: 195518" data-attributes="member: 3155"><p>Well of course you are feeling PTSD. You were having feelings about H, your parents and M prior to any of this. You have past EX junk most likely. You have stuff from your childhood... You have lots of PTSD. So when things like this happen, it tends to trigger and bring out the emotional side of us. Until we can regroup and rebuild. You have been knocked down emotionally right now. You are trying to get back up, but more and more chaos keeps trying to get at you. Searching for all of M's stuff will give you a goal. Kind of a distraction, even though it may bring up more stuff if you read it all. </p><p>Sometimes just having an ally like this Ed. Consultant can start the ball rolling again, towards hope.</p><p>If you don't feel he is safe and they don't seem to *want* him there or can't help him, I would be looking into other options as well. </p><p>What kinds of placements are available for 18 and over? Have you looked into any yet? </p><p>You are doing great trying to avoid worse for M. You could be doing nothing. For yourself or him.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="totoro, post: 195518, member: 3155"] Well of course you are feeling PTSD. You were having feelings about H, your parents and M prior to any of this. You have past EX junk most likely. You have stuff from your childhood... You have lots of PTSD. So when things like this happen, it tends to trigger and bring out the emotional side of us. Until we can regroup and rebuild. You have been knocked down emotionally right now. You are trying to get back up, but more and more chaos keeps trying to get at you. Searching for all of M's stuff will give you a goal. Kind of a distraction, even though it may bring up more stuff if you read it all. Sometimes just having an ally like this Ed. Consultant can start the ball rolling again, towards hope. If you don't feel he is safe and they don't seem to *want* him there or can't help him, I would be looking into other options as well. What kinds of placements are available for 18 and over? Have you looked into any yet? You are doing great trying to avoid worse for M. You could be doing nothing. For yourself or him. [/QUOTE]
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