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Mantra of the week "MYOB"...from me to me!
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<blockquote data-quote="Tiredof33" data-source="post: 504010" data-attributes="member: 13558"><p>Sounds like my 33 difficult child son and his attraction to 37 yo difficult child! I agreee I can see difficult children a mile away and this one is the worse yet. I am lucky because their are no children involved.</p><p></p><p> They both do not work and feel entitled to be supported because they quit their joibs to go to college full time. If I don't send money, 'I don't love him and do not want him to better his life'. </p><p></p><p>They just do not get 'IT' and I am not supporting them. The are living with her mother and her family thinks I should be sending a monthly check. I have tried very hard to stay out of their lives and the girl seems to think she can call me and scream and yell or leave nasty messages.</p><p></p><p>I called the police and they advised her no contact at all. So now it's all my fault and difficult child is giving me the cold shoulder. I know he'll be over it by the time his birthday rolls around. I usually send money, but this time he is lucky if he gets a card!</p><p></p><p>I am so TIRED of the drama and the manipulation. So glad they live in another state and there are no children. This is the worse girlfriend yet and she is the longest relationship at 2 years. One thing her family agreea with me is the fact that they are not good for each other!</p><p></p><p>The extremes they go to be manipulative are amazing!! Stay strong, it is hard for me too, but I am finally able to say it's his life and believe it!!!!!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Tiredof33, post: 504010, member: 13558"] Sounds like my 33 difficult child son and his attraction to 37 yo difficult child! I agreee I can see difficult children a mile away and this one is the worse yet. I am lucky because their are no children involved. They both do not work and feel entitled to be supported because they quit their joibs to go to college full time. If I don't send money, 'I don't love him and do not want him to better his life'. They just do not get 'IT' and I am not supporting them. The are living with her mother and her family thinks I should be sending a monthly check. I have tried very hard to stay out of their lives and the girl seems to think she can call me and scream and yell or leave nasty messages. I called the police and they advised her no contact at all. So now it's all my fault and difficult child is giving me the cold shoulder. I know he'll be over it by the time his birthday rolls around. I usually send money, but this time he is lucky if he gets a card! I am so TIRED of the drama and the manipulation. So glad they live in another state and there are no children. This is the worse girlfriend yet and she is the longest relationship at 2 years. One thing her family agreea with me is the fact that they are not good for each other! The extremes they go to be manipulative are amazing!! Stay strong, it is hard for me too, but I am finally able to say it's his life and believe it!!!!! [/QUOTE]
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