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<blockquote data-quote="april1974" data-source="post: 435774" data-attributes="member: 12128"><p>Seriously- we joke about that too "if you want to leave that's fine but take your sons with you" It's kind of funny because when the twins were newborns husband said I could leave, but I had to leave the boys with him, and now he says don't forget to take my boys, lol, it's a joke b/w us, I always say Na, you can have them I'll pay child support and visit every 2nd with-e, I'll be disney mom!</p><p> </p><p>Girls thanks for sharing such personal stories with me. the common theme is "make time for each other" and with his shift work and my mon-fri it can be hard. I phoned him from work today and thanked him for dealing with the boys this am and putting them on the bus while I stayed in bed(I woke up at 4am and couldn't get back to sleep, stress, and I was a real peach this am so he sent me back to bed) I am one of those people if I'm tired or hungry I turn into an evil wicked cranky biatch!</p><p> </p><p>I started reading a really good book and it has touched on so many of my feelings of what I sometimes feel, like running away from it all, and wishing I had never had kids, this book has made me realize I'm not alone and alot of moms feel this way at one point or another.</p><p> </p><p>90% of the time when I think into the future I think of me & husband, retired, gardening, canoeing, fishing, hunting being together just us...during the crazy cranky us fighting day with the kids making me want to put my hand in a blender, those days I dream of me being alone, in the country with totaly peace & quiet.</p><p> </p><p>We have been through alot together over the last 13yrs and I think that is why we get so stressed because it's like we both feel "why us?" why can't things go right for once? we both do the pity party. But we always agree it could be much much much worse and this too shall pass, we hope&#9829;</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="april1974, post: 435774, member: 12128"] Seriously- we joke about that too "if you want to leave that's fine but take your sons with you" It's kind of funny because when the twins were newborns husband said I could leave, but I had to leave the boys with him, and now he says don't forget to take my boys, lol, it's a joke b/w us, I always say Na, you can have them I'll pay child support and visit every 2nd with-e, I'll be disney mom! Girls thanks for sharing such personal stories with me. the common theme is "make time for each other" and with his shift work and my mon-fri it can be hard. I phoned him from work today and thanked him for dealing with the boys this am and putting them on the bus while I stayed in bed(I woke up at 4am and couldn't get back to sleep, stress, and I was a real peach this am so he sent me back to bed) I am one of those people if I'm tired or hungry I turn into an evil wicked cranky biatch! I started reading a really good book and it has touched on so many of my feelings of what I sometimes feel, like running away from it all, and wishing I had never had kids, this book has made me realize I'm not alone and alot of moms feel this way at one point or another. 90% of the time when I think into the future I think of me & husband, retired, gardening, canoeing, fishing, hunting being together just us...during the crazy cranky us fighting day with the kids making me want to put my hand in a blender, those days I dream of me being alone, in the country with totaly peace & quiet. We have been through alot together over the last 13yrs and I think that is why we get so stressed because it's like we both feel "why us?" why can't things go right for once? we both do the pity party. But we always agree it could be much much much worse and this too shall pass, we hope♥ [/QUOTE]
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