difficult child has dragged us through the mud, and thrown salt in the wound. we are at our wits end. has anyone turned a child over to foster care? difficult child is in treatment center now (that we can't afford) insurance coverage is a daily worry.and we are terrified of him coming back to the house. even in treatment, difficult child is manipulating everyone and is not changing. difficult child doesn't even want us to visit or go to family sessions and refuses to call us. help!