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<blockquote data-quote="DDD" data-source="post: 522961" data-attributes="member: 35"><p>Hmmmmmmmm. I think I'm going to suggest "not" talking this out with Tony yet. All of you have been riding an emotional rollercoaster lately and "nothing but nothing" has been normal. Your meals have been off. The housekeeping has been off. The television hours have been off. The personal conversations have been non-existent. Nope. I think you need to let at least a few days pass for the storm to blow over or at least downgrade.</p><p></p><p>Actually I'm not sure that either you or Tony know what you want right now. Obviously it's a little too simple to say "I want our life to go back to what it was before Buck arrived." I can't see a positive side of saying "let's redivide the bills around here". Although a number of family members have suggested "seducing" Tony...most couples who have shared life for over twenty years already have an established pattern of seduction or very limited seduction.</p><p></p><p>Lord knows I am no expert, sigh, but I think you should make a simple list of what you know you should do and what you believe you can do in hopes of regaining some peace. First on the list would be calling Mandy and apologizing for losing it at her house and thanking her for hosting the holiday. Second would be focused on you, Tony and your home. Perhaps there is something simple that Tony likes that you haven't made for him lately. Perhaps sweet tea or ?? some little thing</p><p>that he could "see" as a loving gesture but nothing to talk about??</p><p></p><p>Hang in there. DDD</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="DDD, post: 522961, member: 35"] Hmmmmmmmm. I think I'm going to suggest "not" talking this out with Tony yet. All of you have been riding an emotional rollercoaster lately and "nothing but nothing" has been normal. Your meals have been off. The housekeeping has been off. The television hours have been off. The personal conversations have been non-existent. Nope. I think you need to let at least a few days pass for the storm to blow over or at least downgrade. Actually I'm not sure that either you or Tony know what you want right now. Obviously it's a little too simple to say "I want our life to go back to what it was before Buck arrived." I can't see a positive side of saying "let's redivide the bills around here". Although a number of family members have suggested "seducing" Tony...most couples who have shared life for over twenty years already have an established pattern of seduction or very limited seduction. Lord knows I am no expert, sigh, but I think you should make a simple list of what you know you should do and what you believe you can do in hopes of regaining some peace. First on the list would be calling Mandy and apologizing for losing it at her house and thanking her for hosting the holiday. Second would be focused on you, Tony and your home. Perhaps there is something simple that Tony likes that you haven't made for him lately. Perhaps sweet tea or ?? some little thing that he could "see" as a loving gesture but nothing to talk about?? Hang in there. DDD [/QUOTE]
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