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Mikey? Just checkin' on you....
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<blockquote data-quote="HereWeGoAgain" data-source="post: 118247" data-attributes="member: 3485"><p>On that score, you are already enjoying McWeedy's animosity and some measure from wife as well... and 12 to 18 months is not forever. You can detach from McW's shenanigans, from wife's failure to face facts, and let everyone know that the Diversion Officer is going to get the low down. Is there any possible outcome from doing this that is worse than the status quo? If wife kicks you out of the house over it, well, you were thinking of leaving anyway; and Dancer would hopefully see that you have McW's best interests in mind and that wife is enabling, and not hold you to blame. Also on the matter of custody, while it is true what you said about all things being equal, a court would award custody to wife, the fact is that all things are not equal. Besides the fact that wife is tolerating the drug/alcohol abuse, Dancer herself has a big say at her age, and though she would probably elect to stay with mom, joint custody or at the very least liberal visitation are likely outcomes I would think. Not that I am counseling divorce, mind you, just encouraging you to try to take a step back and evaluate things objectively.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="HereWeGoAgain, post: 118247, member: 3485"] On that score, you are already enjoying McWeedy's animosity and some measure from wife as well... and 12 to 18 months is not forever. You can detach from McW's shenanigans, from wife's failure to face facts, and let everyone know that the Diversion Officer is going to get the low down. Is there any possible outcome from doing this that is worse than the status quo? If wife kicks you out of the house over it, well, you were thinking of leaving anyway; and Dancer would hopefully see that you have McW's best interests in mind and that wife is enabling, and not hold you to blame. Also on the matter of custody, while it is true what you said about all things being equal, a court would award custody to wife, the fact is that all things are not equal. Besides the fact that wife is tolerating the drug/alcohol abuse, Dancer herself has a big say at her age, and though she would probably elect to stay with mom, joint custody or at the very least liberal visitation are likely outcomes I would think. Not that I am counseling divorce, mind you, just encouraging you to try to take a step back and evaluate things objectively. [/QUOTE]
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