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<blockquote data-quote="Star*" data-source="post: 528798" data-attributes="member: 4964"><p>Well I hate to ask the unobvious, but myself being an only child except for my sister? I'll ask anyway since our relationships seem to draw such a parallel in love/hate. With the exception of my sister is an Aspie, genius, and words that I can't type here on the board -well I could but who wants to spend the day with a bar of Lava in their mouth and their nose in the corner? </p><p></p><p>Do you suppose your sister is trying to make herself look like she cares more than she does to your Mom so that maybe a will could be changed or persuaded to BE changed? This is the ONLY reason my sister has tried to be the slightest bit nice in the last few months. And my Mother just laughs. I told Mom to give it all to her - THAT ---WOULD be a shocker to her. The only thing I want will be gone when she's gone. The rest is all my sister ever wanted anyway - I said she should have it. At least if she DID get it - she'd leave me the H alone after Mom is gone. IF she doesn't get it? She's going to hound me to death until she gets what she THINKS she should have anyway. Mom thinks that is hysterical - based on the last 20 years of treatment shes gotten from my sister and especially the last 19 years of treatment from her daughter - the granddaughter. </p><p></p><p>You treat your Mother with love, respect and kindness for NO particular reasons HNR. Other than you love her. I wouldn't worry about WHAT or WHY your sister is doing what she does. In the scheme of things her thoughts and her deeds count for about () much in your Moms mind because your Mother raised you both, she knows your hearts better than anyone....and despite her age - her mind is SHARP - it's just her body you said that is failing. Don't discount her awareness and abilities to still sort fact from **** - just because she is where she is. You're sister is not fooling her at all - and she's MOST CERTAINLY not fooling anyone else at that nursing home. They see the end of times (so to speak) bs all the time. Probably better sorters than anyone. </p><p></p><p>You're a good daughter.......I wouldn't let B.C. (Big Crazy) bother me one bit. Hand her an Emmy and be done with her comedy and tragedy of a play. She's not fooling anyone.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Star*, post: 528798, member: 4964"] Well I hate to ask the unobvious, but myself being an only child except for my sister? I'll ask anyway since our relationships seem to draw such a parallel in love/hate. With the exception of my sister is an Aspie, genius, and words that I can't type here on the board -well I could but who wants to spend the day with a bar of Lava in their mouth and their nose in the corner? Do you suppose your sister is trying to make herself look like she cares more than she does to your Mom so that maybe a will could be changed or persuaded to BE changed? This is the ONLY reason my sister has tried to be the slightest bit nice in the last few months. And my Mother just laughs. I told Mom to give it all to her - THAT ---WOULD be a shocker to her. The only thing I want will be gone when she's gone. The rest is all my sister ever wanted anyway - I said she should have it. At least if she DID get it - she'd leave me the H alone after Mom is gone. IF she doesn't get it? She's going to hound me to death until she gets what she THINKS she should have anyway. Mom thinks that is hysterical - based on the last 20 years of treatment shes gotten from my sister and especially the last 19 years of treatment from her daughter - the granddaughter. You treat your Mother with love, respect and kindness for NO particular reasons HNR. Other than you love her. I wouldn't worry about WHAT or WHY your sister is doing what she does. In the scheme of things her thoughts and her deeds count for about () much in your Moms mind because your Mother raised you both, she knows your hearts better than anyone....and despite her age - her mind is SHARP - it's just her body you said that is failing. Don't discount her awareness and abilities to still sort fact from **** - just because she is where she is. You're sister is not fooling her at all - and she's MOST CERTAINLY not fooling anyone else at that nursing home. They see the end of times (so to speak) bs all the time. Probably better sorters than anyone. You're a good daughter.......I wouldn't let B.C. (Big Crazy) bother me one bit. Hand her an Emmy and be done with her comedy and tragedy of a play. She's not fooling anyone. [/QUOTE]
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