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Missing H. more than I thought a soul was capable
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<blockquote data-quote="klmno" data-source="post: 157593" data-attributes="member: 3699"><p>Steely, I am so sorry that I am just now answering this post. I'm glad to see others who have offered so much support though. You are still in my thoughts and I want to send many cyber-hugs your way. </p><p></p><p>I loved that poem, too! And I think Janet's idea is great. There may be sometimes that you find that too painful of a project to pursue, but then there might be times when it is comforting. So, if you start and stop on it for a year, who cares- it can be YOUR project.</p><p></p><p>Your pain must be horrible many times- I do think you are healing, though. I'm sure there are days or even minutes when you don't see that because of all the pain you still feel. But you are doing ok and hanging in there and that is the main thing.</p><p></p><p>My dad die when I was 5 and my step-dad died when I was 16. I still cry over both of them at different times. But, I felt I knew my step-dad so well that I still talk to him and <em>think<em> I know what he would say to me, so I try to find strength and comfort in the words that I believe he would say. And, I try to do things in my life that I think he would do. This makes me feel like his spirit will live on. And, I try really hard to thank God for the time I had him in my life, instead of <em>only</em> grieving because he couldn't be here to share so many more years and be a part of my son's life.</em></em></p><p><em><em></em></em></p><p><em><em>You are working through all this. The tears are just going to come sometimes, so I am glad that you post and share them and let us support you as much as we are able- albeit some of us might be a little late about it sometimes-</em></em></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="klmno, post: 157593, member: 3699"] Steely, I am so sorry that I am just now answering this post. I'm glad to see others who have offered so much support though. You are still in my thoughts and I want to send many cyber-hugs your way. I loved that poem, too! And I think Janet's idea is great. There may be sometimes that you find that too painful of a project to pursue, but then there might be times when it is comforting. So, if you start and stop on it for a year, who cares- it can be YOUR project. Your pain must be horrible many times- I do think you are healing, though. I'm sure there are days or even minutes when you don't see that because of all the pain you still feel. But you are doing ok and hanging in there and that is the main thing. My dad die when I was 5 and my step-dad died when I was 16. I still cry over both of them at different times. But, I felt I knew my step-dad so well that I still talk to him and [I]think[I] I know what he would say to me, so I try to find strength and comfort in the words that I believe he would say. And, I try to do things in my life that I think he would do. This makes me feel like his spirit will live on. And, I try really hard to thank God for the time I had him in my life, instead of [I]only[/I] grieving because he couldn't be here to share so many more years and be a part of my son's life. You are working through all this. The tears are just going to come sometimes, so I am glad that you post and share them and let us support you as much as we are able- albeit some of us might be a little late about it sometimes-[/I][/I] [/QUOTE]
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