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<blockquote data-quote="Jena" data-source="post: 395438" data-attributes="member: 4514"><p>yea it's all just eating me up now. i'm very unhappy yet coping as i do best my herbal supplements my journaling, my meditating when i can fit it in. I really dont' like my Mom. God forgive me. I love her because she's my mom and will always respect her. i'm big on the respect thing yet if i didnt' know her i def. wouldnt' befriend her.</p><p> </p><p>yea she doesnt' care. it doesnt' matter to her that both my kids are a wreck right now, or that i may need to just be around family on xmas day besides my kids that drive me nuts and husband. they've done this before where they say they'll come and find an excuse not to. best is she blames me for it. my mom is extremely selfish person always has been. always will be. it goes back to years ago when i was a kid. husband will often say to me how many times is she going to bring up to us in a group setting how hard it was to raise you being a single mom, or how difficult a teen you were. it's so embarrassing we'll be sitting there and she'll start as soon as mention of one of my kids comes up.</p><p> </p><p>she judges alot easy child doesnt' even like her and has verbalized that to me on many occassions. she loves and adores my stepfather who generally is a nice guy yet is getting older and cant' deal with-much at all. his patience level has depleted.</p><p> </p><p>so yea you would think the one parent i do have left that she'd make the effort. say ok no big deal. yet no she is who she is. so now i have to go there on xmas eve and avoid blowing up adn finally saying what i truly think about her. ive been avoiding it for years becaues i dont' want to hurt her. i say to myself what's the point what is my objective and if it's just to hurt her than i dont' want to be that person.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Jena, post: 395438, member: 4514"] yea it's all just eating me up now. i'm very unhappy yet coping as i do best my herbal supplements my journaling, my meditating when i can fit it in. I really dont' like my Mom. God forgive me. I love her because she's my mom and will always respect her. i'm big on the respect thing yet if i didnt' know her i def. wouldnt' befriend her. yea she doesnt' care. it doesnt' matter to her that both my kids are a wreck right now, or that i may need to just be around family on xmas day besides my kids that drive me nuts and husband. they've done this before where they say they'll come and find an excuse not to. best is she blames me for it. my mom is extremely selfish person always has been. always will be. it goes back to years ago when i was a kid. husband will often say to me how many times is she going to bring up to us in a group setting how hard it was to raise you being a single mom, or how difficult a teen you were. it's so embarrassing we'll be sitting there and she'll start as soon as mention of one of my kids comes up. she judges alot easy child doesnt' even like her and has verbalized that to me on many occassions. she loves and adores my stepfather who generally is a nice guy yet is getting older and cant' deal with-much at all. his patience level has depleted. so yea you would think the one parent i do have left that she'd make the effort. say ok no big deal. yet no she is who she is. so now i have to go there on xmas eve and avoid blowing up adn finally saying what i truly think about her. ive been avoiding it for years becaues i dont' want to hurt her. i say to myself what's the point what is my objective and if it's just to hurt her than i dont' want to be that person. [/QUOTE]
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