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<blockquote data-quote="Jena" data-source="post: 395600" data-attributes="member: 4514"><p>Janet i agree with-you 100%. they are his family. and although we both agreed not to do what we did last year and put me thru that his dad is very nasty to me, we chose to spend it with-mine. or at least me he's working. </p><p> </p><p>mom emailed last night and said she will not be coming for xmas day afterall. I said well i am not telling my kids, you can tell them why it is you will not come xmas day to see them. </p><p> </p><p>I wanted to do xmas day with-my family that's why i asked them. I told them no i don't want to do it with-his. So they decided to come. I told them I'm doing late xmas eve with-his family after I spend time with-my mom i'll drive back out this way again. difficult child doesnt' sleep anyway so no biggie. than his siter cornered me on passing by xmas day for dessert. how could i say no to her? i couldn't. long story short told my mom she than threw a fit.</p><p> </p><p>so way it is and i'm sure will be is I'll go to my mom's xmas eve day to see my step brothers who are in for a few days, the girls will be with-their dad and get dropped off later. They'll see my family for about an hr. than we'll be back on the road again for our two hour drive home. To my mom that is sufficient time with-my kids. yes I had to read well we'll all be together xmas eve. Really, how is that my other two step kids won't be there, my husband's working than heading to his family i wont' make him do a 2 hr drive both ways after working 16 hours.</p><p> </p><p>so i'm trying to go with the whole can't change ppl thing, not get upset over it, be there for easy child and difficult child who will be upset when she tells them and angry at them. the kids have been working together which is cute on our den. it's that one room that we did zero with since moving in almost a year ago. we got a used entertainment ctr the other day they both cleaned it and it's pretty nice for cheap, than they hung pictures, etc. and all because grandma and pop pop were coming for xmas and they wanted to be able to utilize that room.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Jena, post: 395600, member: 4514"] Janet i agree with-you 100%. they are his family. and although we both agreed not to do what we did last year and put me thru that his dad is very nasty to me, we chose to spend it with-mine. or at least me he's working. mom emailed last night and said she will not be coming for xmas day afterall. I said well i am not telling my kids, you can tell them why it is you will not come xmas day to see them. I wanted to do xmas day with-my family that's why i asked them. I told them no i don't want to do it with-his. So they decided to come. I told them I'm doing late xmas eve with-his family after I spend time with-my mom i'll drive back out this way again. difficult child doesnt' sleep anyway so no biggie. than his siter cornered me on passing by xmas day for dessert. how could i say no to her? i couldn't. long story short told my mom she than threw a fit. so way it is and i'm sure will be is I'll go to my mom's xmas eve day to see my step brothers who are in for a few days, the girls will be with-their dad and get dropped off later. They'll see my family for about an hr. than we'll be back on the road again for our two hour drive home. To my mom that is sufficient time with-my kids. yes I had to read well we'll all be together xmas eve. Really, how is that my other two step kids won't be there, my husband's working than heading to his family i wont' make him do a 2 hr drive both ways after working 16 hours. so i'm trying to go with the whole can't change ppl thing, not get upset over it, be there for easy child and difficult child who will be upset when she tells them and angry at them. the kids have been working together which is cute on our den. it's that one room that we did zero with since moving in almost a year ago. we got a used entertainment ctr the other day they both cleaned it and it's pretty nice for cheap, than they hung pictures, etc. and all because grandma and pop pop were coming for xmas and they wanted to be able to utilize that room. [/QUOTE]
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