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<blockquote data-quote="Jena" data-source="post: 395771" data-attributes="member: 4514"><p>Beth its all good and yup still love ya, Janet no apologies needed. I feel the same way LOL. I've been going thru this for years with-my mom you would think id' of gotten it by now. She as most has her pluses about who she is, yet there are also alot of negatives. Yet she's my Mom so i hold my tongue as best I can. I have no clue why i'm so big on respect with-her. I saw her and my sweet grandmother who i adored and was very close to have a highly toxic relationship till my grandmother passed. I did not want to repeat that cycle. yet it seems as though i can't change her it's me who has to find a way of coping with who she is.</p><p> </p><p>as far as the rest goes i told easy child well actually easy child guessed it she is really funny sometimes. last night i said to her i'm not sure if grandma's coming for xmas, so right away she said let me guess why because husband's family "might" pass by and I simply laughed. I forget she's almost 18 now and has seen the dynamic for years with her grandma. I said you got it kiddo. she said wow grandma's such a witch. i said yes she def can be. yet we will be there xmas eve for a bit i want to go to see my brother's baby haven't seen her in mos. and kids want to see her. I said we'll smile and give gifts and be the bigger person because in life sometimes that's the better way to go. she said screw that i'd tell grandma she's a downright pyscho LOL.</p><p> </p><p>isn't it funny when our kids start to form into their own people with their own opinions?? soo not brought on by me. that's always been my thing dont' judge ex h let them see for themselves so nevera bad word to i utter, same with-grandma. it's up to them to form their own judgements about ppl not follow my lead based on my own emotions.</p><p> </p><p>dont' ever worry about offending me, I know i can be rough at times i think tha'Tourette's Syndrome just come from fighting all my life for things I need or for difficult child. which i know we all are accustomed to. Yet when a spade's a spade please oh please it's all GOOD!!!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Jena, post: 395771, member: 4514"] Beth its all good and yup still love ya, Janet no apologies needed. I feel the same way LOL. I've been going thru this for years with-my mom you would think id' of gotten it by now. She as most has her pluses about who she is, yet there are also alot of negatives. Yet she's my Mom so i hold my tongue as best I can. I have no clue why i'm so big on respect with-her. I saw her and my sweet grandmother who i adored and was very close to have a highly toxic relationship till my grandmother passed. I did not want to repeat that cycle. yet it seems as though i can't change her it's me who has to find a way of coping with who she is. as far as the rest goes i told easy child well actually easy child guessed it she is really funny sometimes. last night i said to her i'm not sure if grandma's coming for xmas, so right away she said let me guess why because husband's family "might" pass by and I simply laughed. I forget she's almost 18 now and has seen the dynamic for years with her grandma. I said you got it kiddo. she said wow grandma's such a witch. i said yes she def can be. yet we will be there xmas eve for a bit i want to go to see my brother's baby haven't seen her in mos. and kids want to see her. I said we'll smile and give gifts and be the bigger person because in life sometimes that's the better way to go. she said screw that i'd tell grandma she's a downright pyscho LOL. isn't it funny when our kids start to form into their own people with their own opinions?? soo not brought on by me. that's always been my thing dont' judge ex h let them see for themselves so nevera bad word to i utter, same with-grandma. it's up to them to form their own judgements about ppl not follow my lead based on my own emotions. dont' ever worry about offending me, I know i can be rough at times i think tha'Tourette's Syndrome just come from fighting all my life for things I need or for difficult child. which i know we all are accustomed to. Yet when a spade's a spade please oh please it's all GOOD!!! [/QUOTE]
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