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<blockquote data-quote="Arttillygirl" data-source="post: 36645" data-attributes="member: 3522"><p>Well it's getting worse. I dont think it's the zoloft, it's only been a week. My husband is just really trying. Took him to a football game Monday night, easy child and I had a dream nite.</p><p>As my last post, I met with some teachers yesterday, he's not horriblly off track so I thought that was positive.</p><p></p><p>Last night he wanted to purchase some RAP music videos. Two were not horrid but the third just ticked me off. Why does he want to wallow in some ghetto world where the people just have no choices? The gold teeth and bling and crotch grabbing and lyrics that were not understandable because of so many bleeps?</p><p></p><p>Anyway. In the back of my mind I was thinking of the dark things he'd posted on his myspace for all the world to see and we tried to talk to him. How can we allow this music if he seems to be getting more negative? husband thought I was out of line with our "courting" him as our pastor suggested. I am so tired of not calling a spade a spade. I read the writings of the shooter in VA and they were no more hate filled than my son's. After husband read them he agreed. We went to talk to him and got no where. We said we wouldn't continue to pay for myspace (internet) if he was going to post blurbs like that. (One said he was glad anna nicole was dead for ex.)</p><p></p><p>This morning I looked at his chatting and he was plotting to run away with a girl he met on myspace through a friend. (That's his life now-just as I feared.) He had some choice words about us. Esp. not having the computer in his room. He suggested that he didn't want to leave his friends but just "teach us a lesson". He asked her to tap on his window any night. </p><p>Guess the alarms on the windows make sense about now.</p><p>She wanted him to call her but he said we wouldn't let him talk to someone we didn't know and if we did it had to be in a public area, not his room with the door shut. (I admit that was husband's rule and it's pretty extreme. But in this case I am glad he insisted on it.) I checked the phone, they never did talk to each other but I guess it goes in my bedroom at night now.</p><p></p><p>I feel like we are sitting on a time bomb.</p><p>Any reactions anyone?</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Arttillygirl, post: 36645, member: 3522"] Well it's getting worse. I dont think it's the zoloft, it's only been a week. My husband is just really trying. Took him to a football game Monday night, easy child and I had a dream nite. As my last post, I met with some teachers yesterday, he's not horriblly off track so I thought that was positive. Last night he wanted to purchase some RAP music videos. Two were not horrid but the third just ticked me off. Why does he want to wallow in some ghetto world where the people just have no choices? The gold teeth and bling and crotch grabbing and lyrics that were not understandable because of so many bleeps? Anyway. In the back of my mind I was thinking of the dark things he'd posted on his myspace for all the world to see and we tried to talk to him. How can we allow this music if he seems to be getting more negative? husband thought I was out of line with our "courting" him as our pastor suggested. I am so tired of not calling a spade a spade. I read the writings of the shooter in VA and they were no more hate filled than my son's. After husband read them he agreed. We went to talk to him and got no where. We said we wouldn't continue to pay for myspace (internet) if he was going to post blurbs like that. (One said he was glad anna nicole was dead for ex.) This morning I looked at his chatting and he was plotting to run away with a girl he met on myspace through a friend. (That's his life now-just as I feared.) He had some choice words about us. Esp. not having the computer in his room. He suggested that he didn't want to leave his friends but just "teach us a lesson". He asked her to tap on his window any night. Guess the alarms on the windows make sense about now. She wanted him to call her but he said we wouldn't let him talk to someone we didn't know and if we did it had to be in a public area, not his room with the door shut. (I admit that was husband's rule and it's pretty extreme. But in this case I am glad he insisted on it.) I checked the phone, they never did talk to each other but I guess it goes in my bedroom at night now. I feel like we are sitting on a time bomb. Any reactions anyone? [/QUOTE]
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