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<blockquote data-quote="Childofmine" data-source="post: 623818" data-attributes="member: 17542"><p>Broken, I have been following along and I am so sorry for your daughter's choice not to talk to you right now.</p><p></p><p>Feel the pain, broken, as you are doing, and then get up, turn your energy toward yourself and something productive in your life, and set it aside. </p><p></p><p>Start doing that every single day. In time, as you practice more self-care, the good minutes in your life will turn into hours and the hours into days. Regardless of what your daughter does or does not do. </p><p></p><p>It is very hard to understand that things can be good for us, even if they are not good for our children, whom we love so much or between us. </p><p></p><p>I am learning to accept what is. I am learning to look truth full in the face, and feel the pain of it, and then go on with my own life.</p><p></p><p>I have decided, Broken. I have decided that I want a wonderful life. And I am going to work to have one. </p><p></p><p>I hope you will too. This forum, reading and writing on it, can move you toward that full life, among many other tools that are there for you. Read all of these threads and start making your own list of tools that will work for you. Then use them, every day. </p><p></p><p>I promise you that you will change. Anything we focus on in our lives brings results. That is one of my mantras, and always has been.</p><p></p><p>Hugs and peace and blessings to you tonight.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Childofmine, post: 623818, member: 17542"] Broken, I have been following along and I am so sorry for your daughter's choice not to talk to you right now. Feel the pain, broken, as you are doing, and then get up, turn your energy toward yourself and something productive in your life, and set it aside. Start doing that every single day. In time, as you practice more self-care, the good minutes in your life will turn into hours and the hours into days. Regardless of what your daughter does or does not do. It is very hard to understand that things can be good for us, even if they are not good for our children, whom we love so much or between us. I am learning to accept what is. I am learning to look truth full in the face, and feel the pain of it, and then go on with my own life. I have decided, Broken. I have decided that I want a wonderful life. And I am going to work to have one. I hope you will too. This forum, reading and writing on it, can move you toward that full life, among many other tools that are there for you. Read all of these threads and start making your own list of tools that will work for you. Then use them, every day. I promise you that you will change. Anything we focus on in our lives brings results. That is one of my mantras, and always has been. Hugs and peace and blessings to you tonight. [/QUOTE]
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