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<blockquote data-quote="standswithcourage" data-source="post: 117051" data-attributes="member: 3948"><p>Well he called again tonight. Asking why we have forgotten him. Can we get him out and send him to rehab - he will probably go to prison if we dont get him out - can we send money - why am I being difficult - do we just want him to sit there - all these questions to make me feel guilty - sometimes they do but I told him we tried - we never wanted you to be there - you put yourself there - I dont have money to bail you out and what if you are not serious - what are your goals I said to hiim - he said to get a car and a girlfriend and an apartment - I said what about staying off drugs? He said yes that too - I cant believe him - I just hear him fromwhere he is and I know he is tired of sitting there - I would be - but what am I supposed to do - he wants me to call the PO and see if they can send him to rehab - I am trying to move on - I am more detached about the situation than I was I just dont want to be so stubborn that I pass up an opportunity to help him! I told hiim all the times we had put him in rehab - sent him and taken him only for him to be kicked out because he wasnt READY!!! I am so sick of hearing that. So what am I going to do when he does get out? I will still have to be strong. The thing that always got me was telling him he couldnt come home. That to me was so very hard. A mother always wants her kids to come home - that is where the light of love is supposed to be - but that is the hardest part for me. My emotions totally take over! :dont_know:</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="standswithcourage, post: 117051, member: 3948"] Well he called again tonight. Asking why we have forgotten him. Can we get him out and send him to rehab - he will probably go to prison if we dont get him out - can we send money - why am I being difficult - do we just want him to sit there - all these questions to make me feel guilty - sometimes they do but I told him we tried - we never wanted you to be there - you put yourself there - I dont have money to bail you out and what if you are not serious - what are your goals I said to hiim - he said to get a car and a girlfriend and an apartment - I said what about staying off drugs? He said yes that too - I cant believe him - I just hear him fromwhere he is and I know he is tired of sitting there - I would be - but what am I supposed to do - he wants me to call the PO and see if they can send him to rehab - I am trying to move on - I am more detached about the situation than I was I just dont want to be so stubborn that I pass up an opportunity to help him! I told hiim all the times we had put him in rehab - sent him and taken him only for him to be kicked out because he wasnt READY!!! I am so sick of hearing that. So what am I going to do when he does get out? I will still have to be strong. The thing that always got me was telling him he couldnt come home. That to me was so very hard. A mother always wants her kids to come home - that is where the light of love is supposed to be - but that is the hardest part for me. My emotions totally take over! [img]:dont_know:[/img] [/QUOTE]
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