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<blockquote data-quote="standswithcourage" data-source="post: 119325" data-attributes="member: 3948"><p>Well this visit was terrible. I went to see him and he says he is so sick of sitting here and working in the kitchen. He started by saying something or someone was getting on his nerves. Then I asked him if he was taking his medicine and he said no but he had been buying klonopin and he snorted oxycontin the other day!!! He also said he took an Ultram for pain. I almost walked out. I started to and he said I am just kidding mom!!! Still I cant stand it. I told him I had come to see him because I love him and he tells me this and then says he wants me to bail him out - right! Then I just told him he needed to help himself - I will call the see if someone else besides me would get him out and send him to rehab as long as he had the order that if he screws up he will be back in there! He kept saying that being where he is is not doing him any good - I reminded him about how he got there! It almost seemed as if we were arguing and I just lost it and cried. I didnt want to do that because I was prepared to be strong. Then he said he was sorry he had hurt my feelings. I said I didnt see any remorse for doing the things he had done for 8 years. He said Drug Court would not be good for him because we wouldnt be able to take him to all his appointments and I said he wouldnt be living at home - somewhere else that would. He said someone went down the road the other day for 15 years with the same charge he has - that is just to scare me I know so I am tired of being stressed about it - when I left he got teary eyed and told me he loved me - but I think we are not good together - when he was little he was the apple of everyones eye - I doted on him constantly and now I am seeing that I believe it was sick - not that Idont love him very much but that when we talk he abuses me somehow. I wind up getting so upset. I hate it when that happens. I will pray and go to Alanon!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="standswithcourage, post: 119325, member: 3948"] Well this visit was terrible. I went to see him and he says he is so sick of sitting here and working in the kitchen. He started by saying something or someone was getting on his nerves. Then I asked him if he was taking his medicine and he said no but he had been buying klonopin and he snorted oxycontin the other day!!! He also said he took an Ultram for pain. I almost walked out. I started to and he said I am just kidding mom!!! Still I cant stand it. I told him I had come to see him because I love him and he tells me this and then says he wants me to bail him out - right! Then I just told him he needed to help himself - I will call the see if someone else besides me would get him out and send him to rehab as long as he had the order that if he screws up he will be back in there! He kept saying that being where he is is not doing him any good - I reminded him about how he got there! It almost seemed as if we were arguing and I just lost it and cried. I didnt want to do that because I was prepared to be strong. Then he said he was sorry he had hurt my feelings. I said I didnt see any remorse for doing the things he had done for 8 years. He said Drug Court would not be good for him because we wouldnt be able to take him to all his appointments and I said he wouldnt be living at home - somewhere else that would. He said someone went down the road the other day for 15 years with the same charge he has - that is just to scare me I know so I am tired of being stressed about it - when I left he got teary eyed and told me he loved me - but I think we are not good together - when he was little he was the apple of everyones eye - I doted on him constantly and now I am seeing that I believe it was sick - not that Idont love him very much but that when we talk he abuses me somehow. I wind up getting so upset. I hate it when that happens. I will pray and go to Alanon! [/QUOTE]
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