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<blockquote data-quote="standswithcourage" data-source="post: 119787" data-attributes="member: 3948"><p>All of you are right. I just wonder what ever went wrong and how it is ever going to be better. I am really having to concentrate hard on myself. I have never (since I have had kids) put myself first - I probably didnt even put God first - my kids came first - their needs always before mine - now that my daughter is married that has changed some but I am always there for her no matter what - my easy child son is pretty independent and easy going but my oldest difficult child has always needed something more - I tried to give it - at school, in the neighborhood, at church, wherever he needed social help I tried to intervene - boy scouts the whole bit - now look at where he is - I wanted so much more for him - I would do anything to help him but i dont know how in my old way of helping - so I have to help in the opposite way that I know how and it has been difficult for me but I realize that I am a valuable person too and I dont want to lose my health or life -</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="standswithcourage, post: 119787, member: 3948"] All of you are right. I just wonder what ever went wrong and how it is ever going to be better. I am really having to concentrate hard on myself. I have never (since I have had kids) put myself first - I probably didnt even put God first - my kids came first - their needs always before mine - now that my daughter is married that has changed some but I am always there for her no matter what - my easy child son is pretty independent and easy going but my oldest difficult child has always needed something more - I tried to give it - at school, in the neighborhood, at church, wherever he needed social help I tried to intervene - boy scouts the whole bit - now look at where he is - I wanted so much more for him - I would do anything to help him but i dont know how in my old way of helping - so I have to help in the opposite way that I know how and it has been difficult for me but I realize that I am a valuable person too and I dont want to lose my health or life - [/QUOTE]
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