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<blockquote data-quote="JKF" data-source="post: 608459" data-attributes="member: 12470"><p>You're absolutely right RE. It's time to let go. I need to step away and separate my life from his problems. I've helped him time and time and time again and he never complies with the simple basic rules that are required of him. Never once has he complied and it makes me want to scream and hit something!!! </p><p></p><p>I have that sinking feeling in my chest like something bad is going to happen but I need to accept that and move on. He's 2,395 miles away (yes - I googled the exact distance) and I need to step back and let fate happen. Otherwise I'm sacrificing my life and the lives of husband and easy child for difficult child. That's not fair to any of us here who work very hard and follow rules and live life in a decent, respectful manner. Not fair at all. So instead of worrying about difficult child nonstop I'm going to focus on the positives - like easy child's progress at school, his journey into young adulthood, husband's mildly wicked, warped sense of humor and his ability to love me - flaws and all, my garden, the beautiful colors and smells of autumn. You know - life. Yup - it's time for me to start living MY life again.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="JKF, post: 608459, member: 12470"] You're absolutely right RE. It's time to let go. I need to step away and separate my life from his problems. I've helped him time and time and time again and he never complies with the simple basic rules that are required of him. Never once has he complied and it makes me want to scream and hit something!!! I have that sinking feeling in my chest like something bad is going to happen but I need to accept that and move on. He's 2,395 miles away (yes - I googled the exact distance) and I need to step back and let fate happen. Otherwise I'm sacrificing my life and the lives of husband and easy child for difficult child. That's not fair to any of us here who work very hard and follow rules and live life in a decent, respectful manner. Not fair at all. So instead of worrying about difficult child nonstop I'm going to focus on the positives - like easy child's progress at school, his journey into young adulthood, husband's mildly wicked, warped sense of humor and his ability to love me - flaws and all, my garden, the beautiful colors and smells of autumn. You know - life. Yup - it's time for me to start living MY life again. [/QUOTE]
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