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<blockquote data-quote="Wiped Out" data-source="post: 312052" data-attributes="member: 1631"><p>Fran and Linda, </p><p></p><p>Thanks and I understand what you mean. In the past when she has said hateful things she seems almost glad if I cry or let her know how much she has hurt me. Of course, yesterday's comment was the rudest yet. </p><p></p><p>I did try to talk to her about it tonight. I told her how if difficult child was saying things to me like she did she would be all over his case. She said that was because he was difficult child. I told her I didn't let her see me cry yesterday. Her response was that's o.k. it was enough to imagine that I was.</p><p></p><p> She was still very hurtful; told me if she was sorry she would have told me so.. I couldn't hold it in any longer and started crying. I told her from now on I wasn't going to remind her what time it was in the morning and that I will leave the house at 7:00 with no warning. She doesn't like me to let her know what time it is so I told her I won't but I will leave. She can then have an unexcused absence for the day; if she gets enough of them her school will kick her out and tell her she needs to go to her home school.</p><p></p><p>I also told her not to be asking for any favors in the near future; that if she is so hurtful towards me I would not be going out of my way to do her any favors. </p><p></p><p>After I went upstairs husband asked her why she was being so mean. She replied she didn't know but that maybe she really was a psychopath (she had read the book Columbine this summer and told husband she was afraid she might be a psychopath-neither husband nor I believe she is but it is interesting to hear what she thinks). Don't know if I should be more worried now or not.</p><p></p><p>I have cried a lot tonight and unfortunately did a lot of emotional eating. I think I just reached a saturation point.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Wiped Out, post: 312052, member: 1631"] Fran and Linda, Thanks and I understand what you mean. In the past when she has said hateful things she seems almost glad if I cry or let her know how much she has hurt me. Of course, yesterday's comment was the rudest yet. I did try to talk to her about it tonight. I told her how if difficult child was saying things to me like she did she would be all over his case. She said that was because he was difficult child. I told her I didn't let her see me cry yesterday. Her response was that's o.k. it was enough to imagine that I was. She was still very hurtful; told me if she was sorry she would have told me so.. I couldn't hold it in any longer and started crying. I told her from now on I wasn't going to remind her what time it was in the morning and that I will leave the house at 7:00 with no warning. She doesn't like me to let her know what time it is so I told her I won't but I will leave. She can then have an unexcused absence for the day; if she gets enough of them her school will kick her out and tell her she needs to go to her home school. I also told her not to be asking for any favors in the near future; that if she is so hurtful towards me I would not be going out of my way to do her any favors. After I went upstairs husband asked her why she was being so mean. She replied she didn't know but that maybe she really was a psychopath (she had read the book Columbine this summer and told husband she was afraid she might be a psychopath-neither husband nor I believe she is but it is interesting to hear what she thinks). Don't know if I should be more worried now or not. I have cried a lot tonight and unfortunately did a lot of emotional eating. I think I just reached a saturation point. [/QUOTE]
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