My 11 years old son is diagnosed with asperger,ADHD,ODD 3 years ago.He is on adderall 10mg and 50mg zoloft in the morning and 5mg adderall in the afternoon. He doesn't have IEP because he is tested gifted with an IQ of 168. However we received countless complains from school of his behavior and inappropriate languages. School is not willing to provide document support when I applied for katie Beckett medical support. He was suspended from school last year, admitted to psychiatrist hospital for 3 weeks for slashing himself with the blade of sharpener. Yet, school and state doesn't feel we entitle to help DS is a shoplifter and a compulsive liar and habit in playing with fire. we noticed these when he was around 2-3 years old. Every time he would say he found them on the floor , I don't know how it happen in my pocket... I always make him bring them back and apologize but it doesn't stop him from doing that. He has a habit of setting fire. Once we were on vacation and he set fire on plastic flowers and threw them to the receptionist. Countless times he set off the firealarm in the house and denied have anything to do with it. We would always search the whole house to look for evidence.He is a compulsive liar, small things as to have he clean his hamsters would return as lie... Things like have you taken shower... I m so exhausted.so suffocating and don't know what to do anymore.Yesterday we were at the grocery shopping and he came home with something again...Advice?