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My 18 year old, I had to kick her out. Has anyone gone through this?
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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 600638" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>I think you both need counseling. You should NOT be slapping her around her face (or at all) and most kids would not slap you back. Maybe you should enter therapy together. It could be that her epilepsy causes behavior problems. I don't know too much about epilepsy. But I do think you both need help.</p><p></p><p>We should not have children so that t hey appreciate what we do for them. Not all will. It's therefore not a really great reason to have kids. And what teens think is being treated well may not be what WE think is treating them well. This is a slilppery slope.</p><p></p><p>Again, I think the most important thing for both of you to do is to get family therapy so that you can both learn better ways to relate to one another. I would not throw a child out for having a bad mouth, but for slapping me....maybe. But then again I would not slap my child...especially not around the head/face. Sounds like you both in a dysfunctional rut and need some outside help. You are both too old to be having physical fights with one another. You should probably learn to interact with no physical contact. I sure can't see the good in it.</p><p></p><p>Parent Emeritus would probably be a better place to post. However, I am one of those who does have adult children. Most here do not.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 600638, member: 1550"] I think you both need counseling. You should NOT be slapping her around her face (or at all) and most kids would not slap you back. Maybe you should enter therapy together. It could be that her epilepsy causes behavior problems. I don't know too much about epilepsy. But I do think you both need help. We should not have children so that t hey appreciate what we do for them. Not all will. It's therefore not a really great reason to have kids. And what teens think is being treated well may not be what WE think is treating them well. This is a slilppery slope. Again, I think the most important thing for both of you to do is to get family therapy so that you can both learn better ways to relate to one another. I would not throw a child out for having a bad mouth, but for slapping me....maybe. But then again I would not slap my child...especially not around the head/face. Sounds like you both in a dysfunctional rut and need some outside help. You are both too old to be having physical fights with one another. You should probably learn to interact with no physical contact. I sure can't see the good in it. Parent Emeritus would probably be a better place to post. However, I am one of those who does have adult children. Most here do not. [/QUOTE]
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