Hello everyone,
I'm new! Not new to child-related stress though.
We're in the process of having our 4 year old son assessed formally. So far it's just been an early intervention team. Tonight I'm taking him to our GP. Next we'll be either getting him seen by a developmental pediatrician or a psychologist. Part of the unknown for me, is exactly who to go to for the best 'overall' assessment. Our suspicion is Asperger's, and it was echoed by the Early intervention team, but I don't want to exclude all the other things that it might be. Sorry, this post is going to be all over the place because that's how my brain is right now. I figure you guys will understand.
Here's the 411 on my DS:
Twin A
Sarah
I'm new! Not new to child-related stress though.
We're in the process of having our 4 year old son assessed formally. So far it's just been an early intervention team. Tonight I'm taking him to our GP. Next we'll be either getting him seen by a developmental pediatrician or a psychologist. Part of the unknown for me, is exactly who to go to for the best 'overall' assessment. Our suspicion is Asperger's, and it was echoed by the Early intervention team, but I don't want to exclude all the other things that it might be. Sorry, this post is going to be all over the place because that's how my brain is right now. I figure you guys will understand.
Here's the 411 on my DS:
Twin A
- Born at 30 weeks, hospitalized for 8 weeks along with twin B. Jaundiced, bradycardia due to infection from PICC line. Otherwise, OK.
- Was followed for developmental milestones by the neonatal team, graduated from that at age 2. Some slight language delays but nothing serious.
- General observations about him since birth:
- sleep...never. Seriously, a very , very difficult baby for sleep.
- Same with feeding...from breast milk to formula to purees to solids, feeding has always been an extreme challenge. What he eats he eats in good sized portions, but he literally has had 3 or 4 items that he'll put in his mouth and outside that just will refuse food.
- sensitivity to light and sounds.
- clumsy - seems to "go" without looking, therefore falls, crashes into things etc all the time
- violent "rage" outbursts that seem to come out of nowhere.
- it's impossible to calm him when the switch turns on - he kicks, bites, pinches, shrieks in anger, and laughs hysterically during these episodes
- conversations seem very one sided. He talks "at" us more than he engages us.
- constant squirming
- defies everything, even if it's something he actually wants
- one-track playing: ie he will only play with dinosaurs, and when he does it's always the same...the big dinosaurs are going to kill all the other dinosaurs. I try to play with him and introduce a new theme...eg 'the dinosaurs are going to school today' and he will throw a fit.
- he will stack blocks up really high and be incredibly focused on this. if one doesn't sit quite right, he will scream in rage and knock them all down
- he doesn't seek out other children to play with. if he plays with his sister it has to be on his terms.
- he interrupts without seeming to even know he's doing it, and repeats the same thing over and over even if I say 'just a minute'.
- he does this thing with his head that husband and I call his Stevie Wonder...sort of a figure 8 with his head.
- his gaze...this could be imaginary but it seems like his eye contact is a bit off...maybe I'm seeing this because of all the reading I'm doing but I'll mention it anyway.
Sarah