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<blockquote data-quote="grlygrl13" data-source="post: 545019" data-attributes="member: 15014"><p>I don't understand what I have to do, that's the point of me being here and my post. I AM trying to learn more and understand. </p><p></p><p>We were actually supposed to move 1200 miles away and I said to stay closer for his son's sake. They moved into my house. I suggested that if he doesn't want to parent him when he is here, they should stay in a hotel or at his brother's house back where the child lives instead. I don't want to parent him, but I don't want him running around my house destroying things and ruining every outing we go on either. I am angry that his dad is not more involved with his treatment because he doesn't know the answers to anything - he basically let's him do whatever his mom won't let him do because he's mad at her over custody issues. Trust me, she'd be happy to know I enforce her rules here when he doesn't. He teaches his son to keep the secrets from his mom to do whatever he wants here and it's out of control. </p><p></p><p>The answer is probably to just end the relationship at this point but I thought I'd try one last time to understand it. We have talked about marriage but I will not marry him with things like this and he knows it. I suggested to him we go to counseling and his response was that he wasn't going to go somewhere to pay someone to just listen to them take my side. That's why I thought coming somewhere like this where someone else could teach me about it and what to do would help.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="grlygrl13, post: 545019, member: 15014"] I don't understand what I have to do, that's the point of me being here and my post. I AM trying to learn more and understand. We were actually supposed to move 1200 miles away and I said to stay closer for his son's sake. They moved into my house. I suggested that if he doesn't want to parent him when he is here, they should stay in a hotel or at his brother's house back where the child lives instead. I don't want to parent him, but I don't want him running around my house destroying things and ruining every outing we go on either. I am angry that his dad is not more involved with his treatment because he doesn't know the answers to anything - he basically let's him do whatever his mom won't let him do because he's mad at her over custody issues. Trust me, she'd be happy to know I enforce her rules here when he doesn't. He teaches his son to keep the secrets from his mom to do whatever he wants here and it's out of control. The answer is probably to just end the relationship at this point but I thought I'd try one last time to understand it. We have talked about marriage but I will not marry him with things like this and he knows it. I suggested to him we go to counseling and his response was that he wasn't going to go somewhere to pay someone to just listen to them take my side. That's why I thought coming somewhere like this where someone else could teach me about it and what to do would help. [/QUOTE]
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