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<blockquote data-quote="ksm" data-source="post: 545023" data-attributes="member: 12511"><p>[ That's why I thought coming somewhere like this where someone else could teach me about it and what to do would help.</p></blockquote><p></p><p>Is it possible that you and biomom can convince your boyfriend that maybe having several appts with a counselor together (who is familiar with the child) to come to some guidelines for parenting the child as a united team? Instead of making it about them... make it about you... you want to learn how to improve your relationship with the child, you want to know what is expected of you as the girlfriend. It seems like the boy might need more help than he is getting... and dad needs to be on board with some rules and guidelines too. It may not be the same rules you expect of your DS, but rules you can live with when he is at your house.</p><p></p><p>I am concerned that biodad was willing to move 1200 miles away... it doesn't sound like he has his priorities straight. Sorry I am not mre help. KSM</p><p>[/QUOTE]</p>
[QUOTE="ksm, post: 545023, member: 12511"] [ That's why I thought coming somewhere like this where someone else could teach me about it and what to do would help.[/QUOTE] Is it possible that you and biomom can convince your boyfriend that maybe having several appts with a counselor together (who is familiar with the child) to come to some guidelines for parenting the child as a united team? Instead of making it about them... make it about you... you want to learn how to improve your relationship with the child, you want to know what is expected of you as the girlfriend. It seems like the boy might need more help than he is getting... and dad needs to be on board with some rules and guidelines too. It may not be the same rules you expect of your DS, but rules you can live with when he is at your house. I am concerned that biodad was willing to move 1200 miles away... it doesn't sound like he has his priorities straight. Sorry I am not mre help. KSM [/QUOTE]
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