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<blockquote data-quote="klmno" data-source="post: 371989" data-attributes="member: 3699"><p>Well, I mam glad I slept thru it honestly. If I had awakened to find him with his hands in my pocket I would have been horrified but if I had awakened to him using a knife on my pockets I can only imagine what could have happened.</p><p></p><p>The policeman just came back to talk to me a min and give me what difficult child had in his pockets and give me the parole violation paperwork. I had vented to him quite a bit this morning about the courts people and difficult child not getting anything but locked up and then released home for another round. He seemed to really be in agreement and said difficult child would need more than incraceration or being at home with me on parole. Unfortunately the courts people have never agreed to that. When I told him that they currently think difficult child needs no treatment, he rolled his eyes. When I told him that they now think I just needed a mental health evaluation, he chuckled and said "yeah, I guess you do, who wouldn't after going thru all that".</p><p></p><p>Anyway, the arraignment will be tomorrow morning. The PO only violated difficult child on two counts of violating house arrest. The policeman said I could go to courts and file charges on difficult child for theft of the money if I wanted but PO was planning on calling me later today. I said I would discuss things with PO first but I want to go about things in a way that gets difficult child more and kept out of the home without going to dss this time, if possible. He said he understood and agreed. He said when he left the detention center, difficult child was sitting over there spilling his guts to PO and saying that he just didn't care anymore. He was telling PO he'd been partying all night and had smoked pot so PO is giving him a drug test.</p><p></p><p>I hope the judge flips thru difficult child's record again and instead of only making issue over a previous order for me to have a MH evaluation, actually reads previous recommendations by MH profs who had given difficult child evaluations. You know the ones- secure, psychiatric Residential Treatment Center (RTC) recommended with intensive family therapy while difficult child is out of home and gradual transition back into home and community. Is it too much to ask for a judge to pay attention to those even though a GAL thought it was no big deal?</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="klmno, post: 371989, member: 3699"] Well, I mam glad I slept thru it honestly. If I had awakened to find him with his hands in my pocket I would have been horrified but if I had awakened to him using a knife on my pockets I can only imagine what could have happened. The policeman just came back to talk to me a min and give me what difficult child had in his pockets and give me the parole violation paperwork. I had vented to him quite a bit this morning about the courts people and difficult child not getting anything but locked up and then released home for another round. He seemed to really be in agreement and said difficult child would need more than incraceration or being at home with me on parole. Unfortunately the courts people have never agreed to that. When I told him that they currently think difficult child needs no treatment, he rolled his eyes. When I told him that they now think I just needed a mental health evaluation, he chuckled and said "yeah, I guess you do, who wouldn't after going thru all that". Anyway, the arraignment will be tomorrow morning. The PO only violated difficult child on two counts of violating house arrest. The policeman said I could go to courts and file charges on difficult child for theft of the money if I wanted but PO was planning on calling me later today. I said I would discuss things with PO first but I want to go about things in a way that gets difficult child more and kept out of the home without going to dss this time, if possible. He said he understood and agreed. He said when he left the detention center, difficult child was sitting over there spilling his guts to PO and saying that he just didn't care anymore. He was telling PO he'd been partying all night and had smoked pot so PO is giving him a drug test. I hope the judge flips thru difficult child's record again and instead of only making issue over a previous order for me to have a MH evaluation, actually reads previous recommendations by MH profs who had given difficult child evaluations. You know the ones- secure, psychiatric Residential Treatment Center (RTC) recommended with intensive family therapy while difficult child is out of home and gradual transition back into home and community. Is it too much to ask for a judge to pay attention to those even though a GAL thought it was no big deal? [/QUOTE]
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