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<blockquote data-quote="susiestar" data-source="post: 372032" data-attributes="member: 1233"><p>How TERRIFYING to know that he CUT your pants while you were wearing them. How is he getting into and out of the house with-o you knowing how? There is no way this is just the beginning of what he would do this time around if he is kept out of wherever. At this point he will probably be spending more time inside. At least you will be safe then! You are far to vulnerable if you are alone in the house with him. </p><p> </p><p>Please don't drop the charges. His defense attorney may try to talk you out of it, for difficult child's "best interests". At this point it is in his best interests to be somewhere that he cannot do this to someone else or do something even worse to you. He is just a little bit younger than gfgbro was when he would go into a gated neighborhood for wealthy retirees in the night. If he could find an unlocked door and no dog he would go in and try to find money, booze, junk food, etc... Nothing that had to be pawned or sold to get cash. One night a homeowner walked into the room and just looked at him. Gfgbro said the guy just stood there looking terrified. Of course gfgbro wore gloves because he sometimes took rather substantial amounts of $$. </p><p> </p><p>Your difficult child is NOT very far from doing that, or doing it with a friend. I hope something can reach him to turn him around, though I have NO clue what that might be.</p><p> </p><p>The pills scare me. Both the amount that he had and that he bought them. MOST dealers will give a kid a pill or two or a joint or whatever to get them to start using. Your difficult child may be beyong that point. If not then he wants to be. Make sure PO has the pills and tests them. Even if they won't get him high they could cause significant damage to his body. If it is a generic Tylenol taking that many at once could do permanent damage or cause a long, painful death that nothing can help. of course if you damage your liver doing that NO ONE is going to give you a liver transplant. </p><p> </p><p>The boy needs to learn that as a minor, he owns nothing. EVERYTHING is YOURS simply because he is too young to be held to a contract. If it is your property you have a right to search everywhere. To take anything away from him, regardless of how new it is or how much he paid for it or what it is. The way he threatened you, then cut your pants, is a clear sign that he very likely to hurt you physically in the very near future if he continues to live in the same home you do.</p><p> </p><p>I am so so sorry!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="susiestar, post: 372032, member: 1233"] How TERRIFYING to know that he CUT your pants while you were wearing them. How is he getting into and out of the house with-o you knowing how? There is no way this is just the beginning of what he would do this time around if he is kept out of wherever. At this point he will probably be spending more time inside. At least you will be safe then! You are far to vulnerable if you are alone in the house with him. Please don't drop the charges. His defense attorney may try to talk you out of it, for difficult child's "best interests". At this point it is in his best interests to be somewhere that he cannot do this to someone else or do something even worse to you. He is just a little bit younger than gfgbro was when he would go into a gated neighborhood for wealthy retirees in the night. If he could find an unlocked door and no dog he would go in and try to find money, booze, junk food, etc... Nothing that had to be pawned or sold to get cash. One night a homeowner walked into the room and just looked at him. Gfgbro said the guy just stood there looking terrified. Of course gfgbro wore gloves because he sometimes took rather substantial amounts of $$. Your difficult child is NOT very far from doing that, or doing it with a friend. I hope something can reach him to turn him around, though I have NO clue what that might be. The pills scare me. Both the amount that he had and that he bought them. MOST dealers will give a kid a pill or two or a joint or whatever to get them to start using. Your difficult child may be beyong that point. If not then he wants to be. Make sure PO has the pills and tests them. Even if they won't get him high they could cause significant damage to his body. If it is a generic Tylenol taking that many at once could do permanent damage or cause a long, painful death that nothing can help. of course if you damage your liver doing that NO ONE is going to give you a liver transplant. The boy needs to learn that as a minor, he owns nothing. EVERYTHING is YOURS simply because he is too young to be held to a contract. If it is your property you have a right to search everywhere. To take anything away from him, regardless of how new it is or how much he paid for it or what it is. The way he threatened you, then cut your pants, is a clear sign that he very likely to hurt you physically in the very near future if he continues to live in the same home you do. I am so so sorry! [/QUOTE]
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