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My ex hurting all of us by talking about his great relationship with Scott
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<blockquote data-quote="muttmeister" data-source="post: 592184" data-attributes="member: 135"><p>There is a mantra that I used to repeat on here often. I think it applies in this case:</p><p></p><p>You can't control what anybody else does or says. You can only control your reaction to them. </p><p></p><p>If somebody is clueless, even after you've told them, that what they are doing is hurting you, either they don't understand the problem of they just don't care. All you can do is learn to tune them out, ignore them, or , when they start, put your fingers in your ears and sing the la-la song. </p><p></p><p>And I wouldn't sweat the "I don't want my first grandchild when I'm 75." People have kids if and when they are ready and grandparents should know better than trying to hurry the process along. I have 3 grandkids whose parents rarely work and really can't care for the kids they have so they are having another baby. Be careful what you wish for; you may get it in spades.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="muttmeister, post: 592184, member: 135"] There is a mantra that I used to repeat on here often. I think it applies in this case: You can't control what anybody else does or says. You can only control your reaction to them. If somebody is clueless, even after you've told them, that what they are doing is hurting you, either they don't understand the problem of they just don't care. All you can do is learn to tune them out, ignore them, or , when they start, put your fingers in your ears and sing the la-la song. And I wouldn't sweat the "I don't want my first grandchild when I'm 75." People have kids if and when they are ready and grandparents should know better than trying to hurry the process along. I have 3 grandkids whose parents rarely work and really can't care for the kids they have so they are having another baby. Be careful what you wish for; you may get it in spades. [/QUOTE]
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