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My ex hurting all of us by talking about his great relationship with Scott
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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 592478" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>Well, of course, as always you are all wonderful. And it's true that ex doesn't have many meaningful relationships. He doesn't know how. Scott is a high achiever and never asks him for money because he has money so he is and always has been the favorite. With ex it is all about whoever doesn't want any of his money. And he loves that Scott is a real nerdy techie and if ex wants to buy a computer or cell phone, he goes with Scott and always gets the best quality item for his money. Ex is also huge on who can do things for him. Julie cutting his hair can't rate with Scott's vast knowledge of all electronics. I'm sure Scott buys him things too and the other two can't afford that.</p><p></p><p>For me, the hard part isn't really Scott. It's knowing I have a grandson I will never get to see. But there's nothing I can do about it and I'm guessing there are a lot of rules about how to behave around this little boy. </p><p></p><p>If it were not for the little boy, I could probably forget completely about Scott, even when he is being talked about. Well, not completely, but put him aside because I will never ever ever forget how cold and vile he treated me at our last meeting, when I tried so hard to reconcile and his wife wept and said she was afraid of me and Scott said he didn't miss me at all, when the mediator asked him. If I have any warm, motherly feelings toward Scott now, I think about that and turn cold. With Julie, it is harder. She tries so much to please her dad and he is always going to favor Scott and his witchy wife. Since she doesn't complain much, I feel I should, as a loving mother, listen to her when she is telling me her feelings. After all, I divorced ex and don't have to talk to him, but she does. One day I hope she learns t hat she will never please him. I am trying to explain to her that this is just the way he is. But she is sensitive and still pretty young.</p><p></p><p>It takes time.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 592478, member: 1550"] Well, of course, as always you are all wonderful. And it's true that ex doesn't have many meaningful relationships. He doesn't know how. Scott is a high achiever and never asks him for money because he has money so he is and always has been the favorite. With ex it is all about whoever doesn't want any of his money. And he loves that Scott is a real nerdy techie and if ex wants to buy a computer or cell phone, he goes with Scott and always gets the best quality item for his money. Ex is also huge on who can do things for him. Julie cutting his hair can't rate with Scott's vast knowledge of all electronics. I'm sure Scott buys him things too and the other two can't afford that. For me, the hard part isn't really Scott. It's knowing I have a grandson I will never get to see. But there's nothing I can do about it and I'm guessing there are a lot of rules about how to behave around this little boy. If it were not for the little boy, I could probably forget completely about Scott, even when he is being talked about. Well, not completely, but put him aside because I will never ever ever forget how cold and vile he treated me at our last meeting, when I tried so hard to reconcile and his wife wept and said she was afraid of me and Scott said he didn't miss me at all, when the mediator asked him. If I have any warm, motherly feelings toward Scott now, I think about that and turn cold. With Julie, it is harder. She tries so much to please her dad and he is always going to favor Scott and his witchy wife. Since she doesn't complain much, I feel I should, as a loving mother, listen to her when she is telling me her feelings. After all, I divorced ex and don't have to talk to him, but she does. One day I hope she learns t hat she will never please him. I am trying to explain to her that this is just the way he is. But she is sensitive and still pretty young. It takes time. [/QUOTE]
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