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<blockquote data-quote="Jena" data-source="post: 384492" data-attributes="member: 4514"><p>hi,</p><p> </p><p>i'm very sorry to hear what you had to go thru that is hard. very hard. i dont' take offense at all, we all give the best advice we can based on the info given.</p><p> </p><p>i never expect easy child to be a "perfect child" no one is perfect. i do expect however for her to not get suspended in school and curse out the dean of students and her teacher and get suspended for doing so. i do expect her to begin to grow in some direction and stop internalizing as her coping mechanism and say how she feels so that we at home get a clue. with-o communication families break down as we all know.</p><p> </p><p>i also expect my husband to be patient and yes supportive. intimacy waxes and wanes in a relationship as we all know. at that's why you gotta be best friends from what i've read and learned when it comes to marriages. so that thru crisis periods if the intimacy and in love junk can't happen due to crisis we can get thru it from the respect and unconditional love that we have for eachother. so no it isnt' ok to be expect ona nitely basis at midnight when he returns from work me waiting for him with a smile and how was your day dear you wanna hang out now till 2?? not going to happen. that's where he has to grow up a bit.</p><p> </p><p>so overall i'll be fine if the other ppl here just take a deep breath and relax a bit. i can handle a whole lot i've come to learn, yet it is challenging when ea member of my family is pushing for my time. i need my time also to stay sane. </p><p> </p><p>as far as other ppl sitting with her, no that wouldnt' work. it's a slow process. we are on break now from afternoon shake. i do alot of stuff with-her to assist and also times like today it's a battle of wills to even get her to begin drinking the shake. today she's wasted two hours on that. also texture's bug her any fruit at all. so fruits gotta be in it. she cant' have it all her way. we aren't doing solids and part of this is compliance besides the anxiety component and obvious fear.</p><p> </p><p>thanks for your support <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite1" alt=":)" title="Smile :)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":)" /></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Jena, post: 384492, member: 4514"] hi, i'm very sorry to hear what you had to go thru that is hard. very hard. i dont' take offense at all, we all give the best advice we can based on the info given. i never expect easy child to be a "perfect child" no one is perfect. i do expect however for her to not get suspended in school and curse out the dean of students and her teacher and get suspended for doing so. i do expect her to begin to grow in some direction and stop internalizing as her coping mechanism and say how she feels so that we at home get a clue. with-o communication families break down as we all know. i also expect my husband to be patient and yes supportive. intimacy waxes and wanes in a relationship as we all know. at that's why you gotta be best friends from what i've read and learned when it comes to marriages. so that thru crisis periods if the intimacy and in love junk can't happen due to crisis we can get thru it from the respect and unconditional love that we have for eachother. so no it isnt' ok to be expect ona nitely basis at midnight when he returns from work me waiting for him with a smile and how was your day dear you wanna hang out now till 2?? not going to happen. that's where he has to grow up a bit. so overall i'll be fine if the other ppl here just take a deep breath and relax a bit. i can handle a whole lot i've come to learn, yet it is challenging when ea member of my family is pushing for my time. i need my time also to stay sane. as far as other ppl sitting with her, no that wouldnt' work. it's a slow process. we are on break now from afternoon shake. i do alot of stuff with-her to assist and also times like today it's a battle of wills to even get her to begin drinking the shake. today she's wasted two hours on that. also texture's bug her any fruit at all. so fruits gotta be in it. she cant' have it all her way. we aren't doing solids and part of this is compliance besides the anxiety component and obvious fear. thanks for your support :) [/QUOTE]
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