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<blockquote data-quote="Hound dog" data-source="post: 349555" data-attributes="member: 84"><p>I was going to call Nichole today, but didn't. Maybe that was a good thing, maybe not.</p><p></p><p>Her ex-boyfriend chatted with me again tonight. Evidently he took what I told him to heart and has spent the past 3 days attempting to patch things up with Nichole and to convince her to come home. But her anger is just too much. He's giving up for now, unable to continue to be hurt by her words when she's lashing out. Can't say as I blame him much. But like I told him, once she gets through this, she'll remember that he did try. That will mean something then. </p><p></p><p>I'm going to try and contact her tomorrow when she gets off work. I haven't spoken to her in days......since about last thursday. Busy you make a very valid point and maybe if I put it to her that way she won't feel like she's having to put her tail between her legs and come home. I sure don't want her to feel like that is what it is. </p><p></p><p>Sometimes things happen, it seems like the universe wobbles and your whole life falls apart. But just because it does, doesn't mean something good can't come out of it. Nichole has had a monkey riding her back for years. I never could get her to reveal the source of this terrible anger in side of her as much as I tried. And I don't think her therapist ever could either. I've suspected something happened to her during her childhood for many years. What I don't know. But maybe, just maybe the time has come for her to begin to deal with it whatever it is so she can finally move past it.</p><p></p><p>The time has come for my daughter and I to have a heart to heart. If she will let me, that is. Around about her age I had my own universe wobble/world fall aprt to deal with that forced me to face my own demons from the past. It nearly destroyed my relationship with husband and my family. So while I don't know exactly what she's going thru right now........have have a pretty good idea. Maybe I should explain that to her, so she can see that she isn't the only one who has ever totally messed up everything they cared about and that it is possible to come through the other side a better person for having worked through it. </p><p></p><p>I don't know how else to help her find her way. <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite3" alt=":(" title="Frown :(" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":(" /></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Hound dog, post: 349555, member: 84"] I was going to call Nichole today, but didn't. Maybe that was a good thing, maybe not. Her ex-boyfriend chatted with me again tonight. Evidently he took what I told him to heart and has spent the past 3 days attempting to patch things up with Nichole and to convince her to come home. But her anger is just too much. He's giving up for now, unable to continue to be hurt by her words when she's lashing out. Can't say as I blame him much. But like I told him, once she gets through this, she'll remember that he did try. That will mean something then. I'm going to try and contact her tomorrow when she gets off work. I haven't spoken to her in days......since about last thursday. Busy you make a very valid point and maybe if I put it to her that way she won't feel like she's having to put her tail between her legs and come home. I sure don't want her to feel like that is what it is. Sometimes things happen, it seems like the universe wobbles and your whole life falls apart. But just because it does, doesn't mean something good can't come out of it. Nichole has had a monkey riding her back for years. I never could get her to reveal the source of this terrible anger in side of her as much as I tried. And I don't think her therapist ever could either. I've suspected something happened to her during her childhood for many years. What I don't know. But maybe, just maybe the time has come for her to begin to deal with it whatever it is so she can finally move past it. The time has come for my daughter and I to have a heart to heart. If she will let me, that is. Around about her age I had my own universe wobble/world fall aprt to deal with that forced me to face my own demons from the past. It nearly destroyed my relationship with husband and my family. So while I don't know exactly what she's going thru right now........have have a pretty good idea. Maybe I should explain that to her, so she can see that she isn't the only one who has ever totally messed up everything they cared about and that it is possible to come through the other side a better person for having worked through it. I don't know how else to help her find her way. :frowny: [/QUOTE]
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