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<blockquote data-quote="Suz" data-source="post: 349792" data-attributes="member: 29"><p>Lisa, my heart aches for you and your panic. I'm wondering if it might be helpful if <u>everyone</u> stepped back, took a deep breath, and let the dust settle a little and give Nichole some space right now to sort things through.</p><p> </p><p>Nichole might be off-balance right now but you sound as if you believe she is safe and that's the most important thing, in my humble opinion. Aubrey and boyfriend are safe. BFF's husband is safe. You also sound as if you are feeling more confident about boyfriend and BFF's husband. </p><p> </p><p>I find it incredibly frustrating, but have pretty much accepted that I only hear one side of every story whenever Rob complains or crashes and burns. I also know that sometimes the best thing for him is to give him the space to figure things out for himself because it not only resolves the immediate issues but it also allows him to practice problem-solving skills that will benefit him the rest of his life. Do you think this might be one of those times when stepping back might help Nichole move to the next rung of maturity?</p><p> </p><p>Hugs,</p><p>Suz</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Suz, post: 349792, member: 29"] Lisa, my heart aches for you and your panic. I'm wondering if it might be helpful if [U]everyone[/U] stepped back, took a deep breath, and let the dust settle a little and give Nichole some space right now to sort things through. Nichole might be off-balance right now but you sound as if you believe she is safe and that's the most important thing, in my humble opinion. Aubrey and boyfriend are safe. BFF's husband is safe. You also sound as if you are feeling more confident about boyfriend and BFF's husband. I find it incredibly frustrating, but have pretty much accepted that I only hear one side of every story whenever Rob complains or crashes and burns. I also know that sometimes the best thing for him is to give him the space to figure things out for himself because it not only resolves the immediate issues but it also allows him to practice problem-solving skills that will benefit him the rest of his life. Do you think this might be one of those times when stepping back might help Nichole move to the next rung of maturity? Hugs, Suz [/QUOTE]
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