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My H has a lot of resentments-Vent
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<blockquote data-quote="DammitJanet" data-source="post: 379583" data-attributes="member: 1514"><p>Ok, I just have to ask...what is it with the male gender these days? Maybe its a moon phase or a some sort of age thing because I really thought that for a while I had a pretty decent guy. Not perfect by any means but he treated me pretty well. All of a sudden he seems to have had a complete personality change in the last couple of years. We fight more, he seems to expect way more out of me than I can possibly do, he criticizes me in a belittling way, claims it is all teasing, claims I am not as disabled as I know I am, says I take too much medication, etc. If I do push myself to do more around the house and cook a meal, he then criticizes the meal and says it isnt very good. Really makes me want to go to the trouble of cooking again! Of course, if I dont cook, that is a huge fight. All I hear about is how he works so hard, how I dont work, how lucky I am not to work, blah blah blah. That makes me cry because I would give anything to work again. It would be one thing if I was able to just go out and do things that were fun and this was a vacation but its not. I point blank asked him how he would like it if he didnt work but also couldnt go out and hunt and fish like he likes when he isnt working. If all he could do when he wasnt working was to sit at home or maybe go to the grocery store in a wheelchair. That wouldnt be so much fun now would it?</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="DammitJanet, post: 379583, member: 1514"] Ok, I just have to ask...what is it with the male gender these days? Maybe its a moon phase or a some sort of age thing because I really thought that for a while I had a pretty decent guy. Not perfect by any means but he treated me pretty well. All of a sudden he seems to have had a complete personality change in the last couple of years. We fight more, he seems to expect way more out of me than I can possibly do, he criticizes me in a belittling way, claims it is all teasing, claims I am not as disabled as I know I am, says I take too much medication, etc. If I do push myself to do more around the house and cook a meal, he then criticizes the meal and says it isnt very good. Really makes me want to go to the trouble of cooking again! Of course, if I dont cook, that is a huge fight. All I hear about is how he works so hard, how I dont work, how lucky I am not to work, blah blah blah. That makes me cry because I would give anything to work again. It would be one thing if I was able to just go out and do things that were fun and this was a vacation but its not. I point blank asked him how he would like it if he didnt work but also couldnt go out and hunt and fish like he likes when he isnt working. If all he could do when he wasnt working was to sit at home or maybe go to the grocery store in a wheelchair. That wouldnt be so much fun now would it? [/QUOTE]
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