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<blockquote data-quote="hearts and roses" data-source="post: 379721" data-attributes="member: 2211"><p><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="color: darkslateblue">Jena, I have considered going on strike before and kinda sorta did years ago, when my girls were young, but in the end I can't take the disorder. Hahaha - H tells me I am obsessive about the floors - I vacuum twice a week and mop once. I don't think that's obsessive for a home with 3 adults and 3 dogs dragging in dirt everyday, do you? But I digress.</span></span></p><p> </p><p><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="color: darkslateblue">It is easier and nice for me if I see a dish in the sink to just clean it and get it out of the way. You see, our dishwasher died. difficult child will empty the dish drain and clean the dishes whenever I ask her to. However, she usually will not think of it on her own. H feels that if I don't do them, difficult child should do them. H's typical response whenever I ask him to do one simple household chore, such as clean dishes, fold the towels with me, take out the dog, or help prepare dinner is: "Where's difficult child?" IOW, she should do those things before I ask him. difficult child is rarely home and when she is, I incorporate her help. Lately, however, with the mono she's been physically exhausted and if she has worked all day and then is napping while I'm making dinner, I don't bother her. But she will help if I ask her to. She's very good about it, in fact. For instance today she knows she has to dust and clean the bathroom and do her laundry. Simple and I won't have to ask her twice. </span></span></p><p> </p><p><span style="font-size: 12px"><span style="color: darkslateblue">Whatever about H - he's still annoying me this morning, it's been a wonderful 3 days. Thankfully, my nieces are coming up for the day so I can engage with them. Tomorrow I will go to the library to do my homework - just to get outta here and before I know it, Monday will be here! Talk about avoidance behavior! Hahahaha. This too shall pass. </span></span></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="hearts and roses, post: 379721, member: 2211"] [SIZE=3][COLOR=darkslateblue]Jena, I have considered going on strike before and kinda sorta did years ago, when my girls were young, but in the end I can't take the disorder. Hahaha - H tells me I am obsessive about the floors - I vacuum twice a week and mop once. I don't think that's obsessive for a home with 3 adults and 3 dogs dragging in dirt everyday, do you? But I digress.[/COLOR][/SIZE] [SIZE=3][COLOR=darkslateblue][/COLOR][/SIZE] [SIZE=3][COLOR=darkslateblue]It is easier and nice for me if I see a dish in the sink to just clean it and get it out of the way. You see, our dishwasher died. difficult child will empty the dish drain and clean the dishes whenever I ask her to. However, she usually will not think of it on her own. H feels that if I don't do them, difficult child should do them. H's typical response whenever I ask him to do one simple household chore, such as clean dishes, fold the towels with me, take out the dog, or help prepare dinner is: "Where's difficult child?" IOW, she should do those things before I ask him. difficult child is rarely home and when she is, I incorporate her help. Lately, however, with the mono she's been physically exhausted and if she has worked all day and then is napping while I'm making dinner, I don't bother her. But she will help if I ask her to. She's very good about it, in fact. For instance today she knows she has to dust and clean the bathroom and do her laundry. Simple and I won't have to ask her twice. [/COLOR][/SIZE] [SIZE=3][COLOR=darkslateblue][/COLOR][/SIZE] [SIZE=3][COLOR=darkslateblue]Whatever about H - he's still annoying me this morning, it's been a wonderful 3 days. Thankfully, my nieces are coming up for the day so I can engage with them. Tomorrow I will go to the library to do my homework - just to get outta here and before I know it, Monday will be here! Talk about avoidance behavior! Hahahaha. This too shall pass. [/COLOR][/SIZE] [/QUOTE]
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