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<blockquote data-quote="ML" data-source="post: 276243"><p>We're about to have the talk. I could only get husband to buy in so far. We raise the rent slightly and tell him he should work on becoming self sufficient by the end of the year. husband wanted to wait and see if he goes back to school full time because he wants to support him to that end. I said we'll tell him that *if* and *when* he is going to school full time we would be open to hearing an alternative proposal from him but we need to move forward with our boundary now. </p><p></p><p>I know it's not very decisive and strong but remember, husband would have him stay forever without ANY boundaries or conditions if I wasn't here so I'm in negotiations. </p><p></p><p>Please continue good thoughts and prayers. We told J we need to talk and he said in a short voice "why" and I said "because we have some things to discuss". He asked us to give him some time and he went back to the basement and I think he want back to bed. Ugh. I want to come across as strong and firm but kind and loving too. I'm scared. ML</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="ML, post: 276243"] We're about to have the talk. I could only get husband to buy in so far. We raise the rent slightly and tell him he should work on becoming self sufficient by the end of the year. husband wanted to wait and see if he goes back to school full time because he wants to support him to that end. I said we'll tell him that *if* and *when* he is going to school full time we would be open to hearing an alternative proposal from him but we need to move forward with our boundary now. I know it's not very decisive and strong but remember, husband would have him stay forever without ANY boundaries or conditions if I wasn't here so I'm in negotiations. Please continue good thoughts and prayers. We told J we need to talk and he said in a short voice "why" and I said "because we have some things to discuss". He asked us to give him some time and he went back to the basement and I think he want back to bed. Ugh. I want to come across as strong and firm but kind and loving too. I'm scared. ML [/QUOTE]
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