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My mom + my daughter = KABOOM!!!
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<blockquote data-quote="Star*" data-source="post: 195940" data-attributes="member: 4964"><p>Heather, </p><p> </p><p>I don't know what to say about your relationship with your Mom and Wynter OTHER than to tell you to stay out of it. It will be what it is. Wynter isnt a baby anymore and your Mom isn't going to change at this time in place. </p><p> </p><p>Their relationship problems can be yours if you want them but I would literally tell each of them - in the same room - "Look, this is your Grandmother and this is YOUR Granddaughter - if you choose to agree to disagree fine, but from this point forward I truly don't want to hear another WORD about what you have to say about her and what you have to say about HER. I love you both, but YOUR inabilities to resolve whatever it is between the two of you that causes this friction is NO LONGER MY PROBLEM AND I AM POLITELY STEPPING OUT OF THE MIDDLE." </p><p> </p><p>fini!</p><p> </p><p>IT really can be that simple when you have two people in the same house that do not get along - their problems are theirs, not yours - but you can MAKE them yours by continually listening to the "after-burner" banter. Unless YOU take a stand and tell BOTH parties - NO MORE I MEAN IT - and then remind them when they start to complain about each other? This song and dance will continue - and make YOU crazy....and you aren't the one with issues. </p><p> </p><p>JUST SAY NO......or NO MORE.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Star*, post: 195940, member: 4964"] Heather, I don't know what to say about your relationship with your Mom and Wynter OTHER than to tell you to stay out of it. It will be what it is. Wynter isnt a baby anymore and your Mom isn't going to change at this time in place. Their relationship problems can be yours if you want them but I would literally tell each of them - in the same room - "Look, this is your Grandmother and this is YOUR Granddaughter - if you choose to agree to disagree fine, but from this point forward I truly don't want to hear another WORD about what you have to say about her and what you have to say about HER. I love you both, but YOUR inabilities to resolve whatever it is between the two of you that causes this friction is NO LONGER MY PROBLEM AND I AM POLITELY STEPPING OUT OF THE MIDDLE." fini! IT really can be that simple when you have two people in the same house that do not get along - their problems are theirs, not yours - but you can MAKE them yours by continually listening to the "after-burner" banter. Unless YOU take a stand and tell BOTH parties - NO MORE I MEAN IT - and then remind them when they start to complain about each other? This song and dance will continue - and make YOU crazy....and you aren't the one with issues. JUST SAY NO......or NO MORE. [/QUOTE]
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